There is something my mother got me straight on…coming out of the gate. She wasn’t about allowing you to have your way “NO SPOILING”!
As you know some parents play this game to win the affection of their children. Bad idea!
I always remembered those children who were allowed to be heathens… and I saw the results if they are still alive. I know from being in ministry that I often see more spiritual abuse among the people who might mean better but are birthing monsters by the hundreds.
Ignorance is a major part of the demise the church building…. Relationship and fellowship with God endorses favor. Even when you feel like you are out there by yourself… Sometimes “isolation” might be the favor of God … preserving and protecting!
I have warned many many times about people who have a tendency to give a child everything he or she wants. Only to the see the detriment of their ignorance in the long haul!
I have those people that are in my life I might adore but I stay clear of going overboard.
Why? I don’t want to hinder any pruning, progress and productivity in anyone’s life. Unfortunately, when people make anything their center without God…You are understandably headed for a danger zone!
Life happens to people and the only way to express who they are is by … cursing God or say they don’t believe in God. With this set of people I wont argue…but I say keep living… Every knee will bow!
The definition of spoil…to impair the value…
And then I thought… what about the word nurture?….
The definition of nurture… to nourish or feed, train, develop, cultivate , sustenance…
The word “impaired” blew me! I knew what that meant… A disability! Or something has been weaken and can’t operate at its full potential.
Spoiling leaves things in this state. of impairment. At first one might believe they are doing the greater good only to find out… they have enabled the person’s full potential.
This generation has been “also” spoiled to believe… not to invest in anything long term…
I know many might tell themselves they strongly disagree… Look around you… how has it worked so far? Our value system and moral ethics are shot! ( no pun intended)
It’s okay to want our children to have things but we must teach them values give them our experiences… Teach them balance. Our spiritual equilibrium is off!
This will allow structure and a stronger foundation! If anyone continues to set non-pruning in procession… Stop being shocked….with the end results!
Wow! So, God had given me the directions to tie spoil and disability together.
I knew in my world that word was like cursing…We don’t eat physically spoiled food… so why do we do it mentally, emotionally,and spiritually? Some people nourish this generation with the quick fix and spoiling.
My mother warned that spoiling inhibited growth. I wasn’t foreign but to the word. And today , I see the horrific damage that many do to others but loading them up on “spiritual sugars”.
Although, I see many our people today live a life of selfishness. They lie and say its about someone else.. but keep looking the “deception” is there! You will know them by what comes out of their heart, actions and that mouth!
Our Westernize customs and culture brain-washes our people into believing more materialism is better. In fact the moral decay of this country is evident! Dog people, maim people, ostracize people and die trying!
Its funny when everyone comes around me… they know I require something. Leave the garbage at the doorstep… and ask God for some wisdom and some joy! I hate complaining because it stunts the move of God from flourishing in your life! I don’t need those bad vibes because trouble will follow you even more.
Negative people bring negative energy simple as that! Many want to call me indifferent…I say okay! I know to keep certain elements out of my private circle.
I don’t enhance the foolishness by feeding it. Just keep mess where it belongs… in your garbage can or in the toilet! I have no words of love and inspiration when “hard words and strong rebuke” is necessary!
I find it amazing that you what you call love … is a lack love when you fail to bring correction to your people in your lives. When I learn that some people “buy” people by spoiling them… Allowing people to mature in the face of adversity builds spiritual muscles.
Some people love to enable the minds of God’s people by serving up to them and then dropping them. You know what I mean? Spoiling anyone doesn’t builds anything it rotten them right down to the core… and after a while it smells! I am unapologetic about not spoiling anyone …I will give you that love and support … and you just might get that kick in your trousers!
I am a no-nonsense individual because in this last hour… We need God’s wisdom, healthy strength, boldness ,courage and endurance to make it! Spoiling people sets up infatuation and fantasy that tomorrow will never come and neither will judgment. If the person can’t have their way… you will then see that other hidden side.
Yet, when people get a sense that you are not all together lovely… they can smell that spoiling! Nurturing on the other hand… Might show love with open rebuke instead of covering your mess with secret love! Violence is something that was cultivated through human actions. Violence doesn’t start with the physical act it start with the imagination and your thought process.
As many like to throw around the common responses to violence in this nation…. I know that our problems are systematic based on “hatred” .
Violence, racism, and every other “ism” is spoiled already… It’s demonic forces needs a place to reside… and what better platform or atmosphere to set it in.., if the ground isn’t cultivating in Godly moral values! Letting people control you with negativity is poison, simple as that….That’s it and that’s all!
Telling people “no” isn’t going to kill them… it sometimes allow them to grow up in another capacity. We need to prune certain people, and behaviors from our lives. Sometimes it might be a someone that is dear to us.
Some people manipulate and control by spoiling… It’s no more than a precursor for a early death in your physical, emotional and spiritual being!
Watch folks who hand over everything without a boundary and then beat you cross the head with it! If you have nurtured the negative behavior what are you honestly expecting? I noticed that some people draw the moral compass in one arena but beckon satan in another… We need consistency all across the board. And this world sees that people say one thing but live another!
Wanting people to like you or kiss your back side… is setting the monsters in place! And it also tell the “monsters” what you are about and co-sign on!
People must learn to stop “fattening frogs for the snakes”.