I know that this might sound a bit strange. But have you ever encountered a person or individuals and wonder what went wrong in their lives to produce negative behavior? Or better yet, they lack the interpersonal skills to deal with genuine or authentic people?
It’s possible that you can meet some people who are not always on some high-tech nonsense! I was in a discussion and I asked certain women about going through the change of life. You should see the look of disapproval of not confronting what many of middle-aged women are going through!
My point is … That there are people who actually believe in living in a fantasy and soon will become detached from reality. You have to go there to express …Do you not see the big gorilla sitting at the dining room table? Some people can have all the “evidence” in the world and stay in a place of compromising positions. Misery “adores” the same kind of company… Being unhappy together… and ungodly soul ties. And this is is leaving their sins, immaturity and ignorance unchecked!
When you have come to a level of mental and spiritual maturity. You are honestly “delivered” from the opinion of others… and their negative concepts of this is how it is.
I express each time I am at any speaking , or a prayer and praise engagement service…That we must surround ourselves with people who will challenge us to come higher even in our thought patterns. Surrounding yourselves with someone just as demonic as you are… doesn’t bring deliverance.
I had to learn about the cliques as I called them the church “gangs”. They all seem to gravitate to the same sins or the same like behavior. Negative individuals feed off of each other and have a greater tendency to spread their seeds of dysfunction and discord.
What certain people can’t handle is that you don’t have to pretend you have all together and simply be yourself! As startling as it is… it’s the TRUTH!
I was birth out of obscurities. What is there to be embarrassed about? It’s not where I came from … It will be where I end up and become!
I didn’t come out of this nicey-nice situations. If you have the idea “Huxtables” family…God Bless You!
Some of the pain that some of us come out of … People have a tendency to push it down instead of moving it forward. In other words…Why must I feel shame because I didn’t have what you had? Sadly, when you see so many “messed” up adults … It doesn’t take long for you to see why they respond the way that they do…
When you are in some deserts in your life that last thing you need is more things to make you more unstable in your thought patterns.You must be very careful of what you attach your heart and mind to. Even so, in ministry I had to learn just how “ignorant” most churches are. Some people been in church all there lives and still sit in the “baby high chairs”. Don’t have a clue about character , integrity or what real spiritual maturity consists of.
Understanding about the power of life and death resides in your mouth. Being “ignorant” can be dominating like a deadly disease! Note this.. that bitterness, jealousy and envy sometimes intertwine.
The productivity and progress really comes when you learn to redefine success according to the eyes of God. All because one is highly educated doesn’t exempt him or her from operating in a level of stupidity! I see all the time! Higher education doesn’t mean a person has depth of character!
The challenge for all of us… is to grow up even if the place is where the land is dry and surrounded with manure without becoming bitter. Believe it or not the test and the offenses will come during the times of difficulties.
The level of maturity isn’t going to come out of a text-book but the book of living life experiences.I think nothing is more saddening to see are grown bodies with child like behavior and mentalities. God challenge us to strengthen our calve muscles when dealing with wicked folks!
When you are in “arenas” that are not conducive to having Godly growth and character… Look out …because it’s easier to overlook bitterness festering in your heart! Bitterness will stunt the grown especially a Christian.
Too many “mad” people sitting in their places of worship, not receiving from God because of an offense! I had to learn to shake the haters off. How can you change the heart of anyone being full of hatred and bitterness yourselves?
Being a SPIRITUAL TRANSFORMER… Starts with being disciplined in your behavior. Too many people are following individuals who doesn’t have any love which is setting the grounds of your heart to be full of physical disease and a spiritual dead zone.
Unfortunately as many like to “think” they are making progress they aren’t! Please explain how can anyone be a changing agent for Christ and Social Justice stuck on stupid? I have yet to see a weed to produce a tare! I don’t care how educated you are or super spiritual. There is something about a negative atmosphere that stops or hinders the progress of God in your lives. That is why it’s vitally important to prune and cut the head of snakes off.
Many I see, still are in making their life and Godly decisions juggling personal picks who are no more than pythons! The spirit of pythons sucks the life right out of you. It’s not always full of force but it will be subtle!
Sometimes the poison of what others may have done won’t sneak on you until later! and you think you are alright! Forgiveness is key to lying low with bitterness and to free your heart.
There are people who they are born to birth destruction and misery inside of others. I had to learn the hard way… when I am consistently attacked by people with the evil spirit of jealousy, envy and immaturity!
I warn … life is already difficult but sometimes it might be better to walk away and allow God to work on you first and them later! It’s not worth the headache to acknowledge the “demons and devils” inside of them. Just know when God handles your situation… he knows “exactly” how to cut the head of the snake completely off! No matter desert storm you are facing today…
You can safely assure yourselves by staying focused on the larger picture! Staying connected in some forms of positive mental attitude, prayer and in a relationship in God!
A cup of bitter… is slow poison that corrodes the spirit of God in you! Stay away from negative influences even if you sleep with it every night! Sometimes who we “think” has our best interest, family, or even times when people marry out of the will of God…can produce blockages and curses.
God can dismantle people who are trying to hinder your your progress or those who you try to hurt you by throwing a rock and then hiding their hands!
Bitter people work on making sure “love” is never displayed and that the ground of the heart stays cold and dry!
A bitter individual whispers discord because they sip on the “devil’s nectar”out of being bitter! They love nothing better and want to strongly influence the river of peace by bringing their funk into the mix!
Love is what annihilate the plans of the enemy! Don’t feed their nonsense… and don’t you get caught up with the nonsense.
I have met some of the most loving people who have gotten hurt on other people “watches” and can’t past the hurt and bitter begins to reside in their temples. And its not long before they act the same way they do!
We all must be careful on who influences our lives be it positive or negative and prune and assess what we are really feeding our spirits. I meditate and strongly “urge” that you pray PSALM 51…. CREATE IN ME A CLEAN HEART…
Remember that “DEAD ZONES” are not connecting to anything including God! Being spiritual disconnected from God draws many “ungodly influences in the physical as well as the spiritual!
God will keep you in perfect peace if you keep your mind stayed on him!