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Mature subject matter… If you are sensitive this might not be the post for you to read…

MY CONTINUED TRUE STORY…

Thanksgiving wasn’t that far a way. His sister and I decided we will shopping and to the bookstore.  I remember as if it was yesterday… It was warm but a slight chill when the wind blew. I had told his sister I felt so strange as if something was coming…She agreed and told me about this dream… And went like this… She dreamed that she was doing laundry and found all this dirty laundry. She then saw like some kind of button stuck inside her brothers nose. She shared that it frightened her.  I then told her that her brother has some secrets that will be aired out. And his nose was open but a button meant something was the wrong thing.  That night… I knew the girlfriend and said something so, he seemed angry at the both of us. What did I care?  I knew she was going to cause some situations.  He told his sister that he was going to drop her off.  I told his sister… this isn’t going to end well…

She and I sat together for a long time and  I prayed at her dinner table… It was getting late and  we decided we leave for church together.  It begin to thunder I kid you not! The clouds were reddish looking. It then begin to start thunder snowing… It was lightning as if it was a warm season…

The telephone ranged… It was her first then the Chicago Police…  I knew it was wrong… the found her twin dead!  I told her he had a heart attack didn’t he?   We got to the Chicago hospital…His girlfriend begin to run from us…  But his twin found her and asked her what happened?  It was his wife that had to come and take care of the business…

I was  sad, and I was tired.  I prayed with his sister…She was devastated !  But I noticed that everyone was whispering as if to keep the secret among the wife and his brothers….  Honestly, when she and begin to clean up his room together before the funeral… under his chair I found the “blue pill”… As time went on… the truth came out… She had  coerced him into taking the “blue pill” which in fact they believe caused his massive heart attack!  His sister died 3 years later!

Why did I share this story?   Within a few weeks the anniversary of his death is coming.  He died trying to  sexually  please a female that wasn’t his wife and half his age.

Too many men suffer with stress and other ailment. All that the doctors prescribe seems like the side effects are worse than what is ailing you.  I say this to the men.  When someone loves you unconditionally the total package is as DEATH  do you part.  NOT WHEN YOUR BODY FALLS APART! 

This body will get ill or break down. Men are weird when it comes to “man problems”.    I have to be so blunt but I am a little taken back when someone consider some of these drugs to feel viral again, that will do more harm than good.

I am not a physician nor an expert… But I am a woman that listen to a lot of men troubles.   I am concerned   about my brothers when they go through the change of life… aka mid life crisis and just dumb down and become insecure! Men talking shouldn’t limit themselves to just seeking private advice from a physician but there are some mature women who are  just as capable of giving a man a different perspective.

When someone loves you whether it’ good, bad or indifferent they will be patient with you. and love you through it.. if the male problem occur … Take your time and choose better healthier   options. Alternative medicines  may work slower but sometimes there are no side effects.

 I am concerned that more of my brothers consider messing with the  junk!  Sometimes relieving the stress,  exercising, get a hobby, relaxation, simple walking and lifestyle changes can place you back in the swing of things!  Do your homework…

As we age things will change. When you are going through a storm… I would prefer someone that loves me for real… and will love me where I am because… 

“Only a QUEEN can bring out the KING in you….Remember that”

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