Nothing grieve and pangs me more when someone confides in you about a problem and the culprits are affirmed right in front of their faces. How many times does a person tells someone you that they are being abused, harassed or bullied? And the cries of people go ignore
Sadly, what a person feels is minimize… as if the pain of the situation is less important all because someone might be fond of the perpetrator. Or who they love and protect is an enemy to someone else. Here is the reality on how so not “real” and the lack of being honest is damaging the church.
God forbid if they are a celebrity, famous, highly educated or even rich…. The double standards and the hypocrisy that they have certain rules that only apply to “certain” individuals… If they have popularity they can’t be serial rapist or an abusive leader?…But if it is a gangsta rapper , He is looked upon with disgust and instantly called a thug or a criminal yet we, have criminals in the church, rapists, molesters, thieves, drug dealers and pimps can be mounted in his or her favorite garments of pretending be that of a Christian! What are they called? Maybe …still gainfully employed!
I can recall back some years. I got a call in the wee hours of the night. I go to bed fairly early because I am up with the farmers. A young mother of 2 children, who was engaged with a so-called Christian male… I can’t call him a man! God help me I can’t stand to look at him!
God help me when I see this “guy” he is the epitome of a being perverted and a hypocrite!
Well, how he was ranting and raving about being real about his church… (Lord Have Mercy) with Jesus but sleeps with her and (many underage young ladies)…every night not married and the sinner is the one who had the problem? Whew!
And let me go here about what has really infiltrated the church. The same creepy individuals not mind fondling you or trying to rub against any females in the church. They actually believe that are okay doing whatever as if God is okay with such offensiveness to him. I see this “crap” on a regular. These people are never sat down or dealt with…..Remember the “family of Eli ?” CURSED AND JUDGED!
He plays “Daddy” to her children but has someone in church he fails to claim while hugged up with another! The engaged female moves in with this nut job. Another woman who I know her mother, so I do know some of the craziness… She is appears at his doorstep with their son,…The one he fails to claim.
The engaged woman, questions him but I believe he wanted a threesome… So, after having sex with her . He becomes “abusive and perverted” … He grabs her up and make her pray to “his” god…for forgivness only to repeat the same act over and over again!
The final straw came when he heard from his god “after sex of course ” this is the only time he hears from his god. He then puts her and the children out on the streets in the middle of the night that’s when I got the call just how “nuts” this guy was! I have had to get him together when he has tried to disrespect me. I have seen this guy interact with others as if he is this down to earth…too cute and too cool…but I know his monsters have been allowed to stay active in the church!
I am outraged at a number of perverted jerks ranks high in the site of those who believe in them!
Well, my observation skills was to check out what he attracts and who fools with him… And it’s always right… those who are just as filthy as he is…and the women have some sort of mental illnesses going on for themselves!
A child can be raped by someone in authority and they try to make a child believe that he or she is wrong for stirring up trouble or bringing that person to justice . Or better yet, all because the person might know in the church as a good person…Okay, what does that many when there has been a history of trouble or negative situation brought to light.
UNFORTUNATELY, WITH SOME OF THESE PASTORS TODAY… You can bring all the DNA evidence ,all 12 disciples along with the “resurrected Christ, nothing is going to be done ! Certain people who strongly advocates trouble are hardly ever dealt with. The embarrassment to church as a whole is those “stupid rebuttals” …. As if God is going to somehow pardon certain elements in the church…. WRONG!!!!
Someone finally gets the courage to share the problems… and the real slap to the face is when someone can’t see their troublemaker, but affirms the bullying by not dealing with the wrong… You’re lying if you can’t say that your frustrated with the injustices in this country or anywhere for that matter.
What grates my nerves more than anything is when no matter how much truth is given they are in denial. Here is the real mind blower…Nothing is more insulting to someone who has been violated by another and they held in the highest esteem and why? Although many protest against police brutality, and other social issues but are often church ignores many serious issues…
If I had a dime for every time someone can’t t can’t believe that their “picks” children or someone they respect might be e indulging in negative behavior. They would rather die than to be wrong or better yet be confrontational.
How dare we protest for humanitarian, social or community causes but fail to stand up for those we are supposed to protect. More insult, people are wounded, hurt, or maimed but fail to be confrontational about things that has happened on ones watch especially in the places of worship. Just think when someone who has abused your son or daughter is in a pulpit without criminal charges being taken seriously!
Evils inside of people are affirmed when they are coddled instead of confronted. When someone tends to favor people who might be trouble … but refuse wont deal with the monsters some keep hidden under their beds or the rocks they hide in their hands. Regardless of how fond I am of anyone… It take guts to ask God to show you where the trouble is and where the troublemakers are.
Here is the part that disturbs me we are quick to judgment and selective areas to protest. We hear of all the police brutality cases, the violence in many communities…strong protest and little outcry. Violators are getting pensions while the unjust are trying to regroup and rebuild their lives…and after being wrongly convicted.
But, on the other hand when someone has been sexually assaulted, violated , abused or harassed in some manner these can be the most damaging to someone especially a child but the marches and protests are limited, and so is the outrage.
The die hard truth is many in the church are gently touching the truth because many will be offended as if the church can’t be contaminated!
Unfortunately, nothing hurts more than to know you have been wronged and it’s constantly being thrown in your face because the monsters are still in their rightful place. And their is no righteousness then… So what is really advocated that only certain people can’t be rebuked or corrected. Justice is a farce because no on is telling the truth about the garbage that goes in the churches today. Material things doesn’t make you rich…it’s your character!
What you tell me is that… Your monsters are okay and they can abuse and hurt all they want. This is why people hate the church!
I don’t care how much of a Christian you think you are… It will anger you!
Try dealing with people who have abused and they now have badges. Leaders in the church who have raped and abused God’s people but who talks about that? And that they are still in the pulpit and sitting in the pews as if nothing happened!
Racists who claim to know and love Jesus but will call you something different when church is out. Blacks just as well as the whites! As if some of the garbage isn’t embarrassing enough?
You know I have truly come to know is that people still buck the truth when it comes to their personal picks and private monsters. They are affirmed even if they are messy! Although attitude is all over the place. The misplaced anger is always seemed to shed on the light on the ones who exposed the lies instead of the dealing where the trouble really lies! The seriousness of it all is all because one might be an angel in your eyes, doesn’t meant that they are the demons with horns!