THINK ABOUT IT… Sagging derived from prison, It was about when a man has an invitation that … the male was AVAILABLE for sexual activity. OKAY… When woman wears suggestive clothing… her underwear shows, married or single… What is she inviting?
Let’s go a step further, the lies…that needs to be dispel…When they have money or come from celebrity status the rules seem to change. And then you hear the dumb excuses. If you got it flaunt it! How can we ban the sagging pants and not the suggestive clothing our females wear? How much sexiness is left when there is nothing left to the imagination? The competition begins all woman are now vying to be exhibitionist.
Growing up I had to wear modest apparel this wasn’t a special request by my mother. This was a requirement…Often times your freedom of expression is without maturity. “You are what you represent”.
I had a mother that cared about how she carried herself and the way I carried myself had to be represented.
And yes, before someone ask… Many believe that “so-called” unattractive women have problems with other women being attractive. I have to be able to stay confident about who I am. Regardless of what my body is… That’s my package. All packing is different. It might be appealing to someone else might not appeal to you!
Needless to say, what is advertise isn’t always what you are getting. When a female have to show any man all they he is missing. Sex isn’t the only thing she is selling. When a husband have no respect for his wife…all of her goods are displayed! Is he a pimp or is her husband. If it is a bragging right for a male…that his wife has a banging body… don’t think for one minute that this doesn’t open the door for other things. Sadly, we continue to set in motion this downward spiral of not to be respected!
I am definitely for looking nice and clean… I don’t do the trampy looks… It places the women today in very dire situations. All females are not that same! When you have to go out of your way to have this so-called sexy look… I beg the differ…A lot of insecurities about who you are …banging body and all…It’s what’s in the head!
Physically I stayed in shape as a gymnast and a cheerleader.
Today is really no different after I went through my bouts of being ill in my adult life. I most definitely had to take a nutritional perspective of still what I put in my body although it wasn’t the food but I use to smoke which defeated the whole purpose. Dieting was always expressed and my mother was probably more obsessed than I was about staying physically fit…
My family believed in it! And what was odd, is that when my brother and I would run together…people thought we were strange. Yet, today people are more focused on what looks good and just the sheer vanity of having good looks! All the pressure of being artificial is at it’s highest!
I am not longer about any diet but a Lifestyle change. Regardless of what I am consuming I need to keep moving simple at that. I have seen overweight vegetarians!
What’s my point? Many celebrities fall prey to what they believe in staying physically fit. They alter themselves with nip and tucks. Often times they opt out on the gym and go to the doctors of their choice for the perfect look.
I loved the show NIP/TUCK… It showed you how just how obsessive people are with their looks and how dangerous the industry was getting!
I on the other hand… was like “Rocky”… I do the old fashion way… I work out! I am middle age and I am not into a size but I am into was is healthy for you!
However, I am one who is a little annoyed with the way over the top suggestive looks. I have curves but that’s also private. Body or no body… suggestive dress apparel blows my mind. Many argue is about how many are hating on women who have great bodies and they flaunt it.
So, when I suggest we be respectful and respect each us other… How come when the guys who wear their “pants on the butt” is irritating but a woman can come out in the entertainment industry it’s called something else?
These kind of females are never roles models but they are new trade for the day! Having a body doesn’t make a woman feel secure it is what she possess from the inside then out… that holds it all together. God has given us very unique gifts and we should to stick to that. Looking to advertise our sexuality is a bit troubling for me.
When you don’t know yourself you will be surprise what women do for attention.
I think something is terribly wrong and there is a double standard… A man’ s underwear is showing he is disgusting … a female with a great body flaunts her stuff… Women are hating! No, that’s just as disgusting.
Personally, this is what I learned with a body and being attractive. All of us have troubles no matter what you look like. If you are secure in who you are you don’t have to market yourself in a negative fashion. Your new boobs, butt, and all the added extra is your business but please don’t say people who respect themselves are hating on your images.
When you know better you do better! Who are you really trying to impress showing off your cookies and cream? The foolishness of the day…is that devil will make a fool out of you. Looks will fade! Everything will go south with age. Genetics play a role and your lifestyle will reflect how you age. I don’t need to advertise my new bra size for the attention of every male in the room!
People who love being praise and with the limelight star power seeks and get caught up in the attention so the competition begins. Many get caught up in being adored and you never seem to get to the core of who they really are. Too much covering up! I don’t have to look like a street-walker for any man to notice me and I am middle age. What I possess isn’t in a jar, nor with a surgeon! It’s still called natural beauty something that almost a cuss word!
I am well aware of how visual men are. I still must carry myself as a lady and not a tramp! You might say, no man looks at the inside…I always say…It’s when you take off all the outer stuff…that you see just how much she might smell!