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God bless all the men who knew how to be great husbands and good fathers. As much as our society demands that fathers should be apart of the family unity. One of the most misunderstood dynamics of Fatherhood is the importance of “covering”. I celebrate the man who at least tries to educate himself on being a father.
Our westernized society say one thing about what family but embrace something totally different. There is an attack on the male period!
If satan can annihilate the “priest and prophet” of your homes. The family structure is already with a rip and at risk. Many are embarrassed to share what their fathers’ were in their lives. I can’t share what I honestly never experienced.
Although, my Dad was in my life but never “really” apart of it. My Father, he had no clue what I needed and even when I got older as much as I tried to connect with him… I couldn’t. Some people are not cut out to be parents look around it shows. My mother, kept me together. I know many cant contest to this.
My Father, had a lot of issues… dealing with his own personal demons scarred which hindered him from maturing and stepping up to the plate. My father, had all girls… and I also had twin brothers who died.
From the beginning I had no idea what happened until much later. Yet, my Father didn’t know how to get it right… and to be honest he wasn’t that interested. God sent surrogates in my life who made the difference… My advocacy for being parents are just as strong today.
For my own life, I don’t trust people, I avoid the pitfalls much as possibly can because I know that my choices in life affects the aspects of generational wealth… in the physical as well as the spiritual. This isn’t in terms of money but what is momentum.
Often times we pass down generational curses out of sheer ignorance. Who your father is can make the world of difference in so many ways. I don’t down play the importance of being with the right people spiritually…connecting with people physically will only create ungodly soul times.
When there is a level of respect for God and oneself … women might be on to something. Fathers, who are there can make and break worlds. Although we say with our mouths we advocate the family but mainstream society …make a lot of men irresponsible and suggests you do what you want!
My Father was around but I knew who held it down. My question is often many dysfunctional people gravitate to other dysfunctions and they then wonder why the generation curses continues. Real men know it takes more than just being that provider but his time is necessary!
Seasoned fathers come through and with experiences, not a book or popular opinions. Protecting his family should be second nature. As a husband and father… you can psychically be present and still be absent. Seasoned fathers make no excuses why he dropped the ball but he picks it up and continues to move forward. He isn’t perfect but his sincere love is.
Our world left a wound open when it came to what a father should be by not allowing grown men to become full-time matured adults. Seasoned fathers today should be on guard because those who went through the process has to stay the wall against those who never covered their family well.
Failing to acknowledge that you are that child’s father…Leaves him or her open to be wounded… bitterness, anger. resentment, and low self esteem are just a few traits. But the best part when your biological father has fallen… We have a heavenly Father, that fills in all the blanks in our lives!