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Passive Aggressive…means It is a pattern of indirectly expressing anger or fears, instead of being open about them. So secretly what you really feel is not what you say with your mouth, it’s your action when you think no one is looking…REMEMBER THIS PROPHETS WERE MURDERED BECAUSE OF THESE KINDS OF PEOPLE. AND TODAY PROPHETIC VOICES ARE PLACED ON MUTE BECAUSE OF PEOPLE WHO WANTS TO MAIM, ABUSED OR MISHANDLE GOD’S MESSENGERS!
So quietly you sabotage and justify inwardly why it’s necessary for you to be undercover and hateful with it.
Here is only a few signs of passive aggression…
2) Purposely performs inadequately
4)Continual resentment toward others because of underline “JEALOUSY AND ENVY’
5) Very argumentative, hostile especially toward… people of AUTHORITY
6) Blame others instead of taking responsibility for the trouble they started
7) Wont be criticized for their immaturity acts of behavior so they set trouble in motion by throwing a rock and hiding their hands. 8) Intentionally “gaslight” to inflame situation because they are always forever the VICTIM…
Listen at this… they are so jacked up in their mindset,they are relentless at being a victim. Hardly ever do they apologize for being misfits and troublemakers! Great actresses. Play on the emotions of others to excuse bad behavior!
Sounds foolish…the church enables women like these. Their sole purpose is to come to church is not to get Jesus…but to make sure you get no part of him!
Personally, I am getting tired of dealing with it!
It’s time to expose all the nonsense that goes on under the steeple. I DO NOT CELEBRATE OR CONDONE EVIL. MALE OR FEMALE …EVEN THE PERSONAL PICKS!
There are others sides to people who some people can’t handle that they are mentally evil. People look at me odd when I don’t applaud monsters or I look in amazement how they are never rebuked but affirmed. And you ask what’s the matter with me… I turn the table and asks…WHAT IS BEWITCHING YOU?
I have ministerial observed that the rules seem to “only” apply sternly to those of us who speak the truth! We are shunned quietly for being the boldest t for telling it!
I don’t affirm the messiness even in promotion because I have experienced the darker side of who they really are. Unfortunately, people have a hard time believing that the people that they thought were good people are actually bad.
So, then I ask myself. How can one overlook bad behavior and affirm them with promotions with blinded eyes or a dismal approach to the craziness that they bring?
Or better yet… Here is the prime example… and it’s a little hypocritical.
If we are to be aware of the company that we are with…why do people give you all the good that they “think” that they have done…and on the other hand totally dismiss complaints, proven wrongs and ill behaviors?
Better education or status doesn’t dismiss a person’s true character, but we know this is done a lot.
We make everyone this “hero” and who cares if they are liars? The smorgasbord mentality. We just choose the best parts? Okay, is this any different when someone chooses their targets of what the believe is the enemies. It almost sicken me to believe that someone with these kinds of issues procreate. All parents of serial killers had some indication that is was bad!
Why do people grasp when they hear the word gang bangers mentioned? People can’t believe that church and gang banging go together. But “sweet God” do I have some stories to tell.
I already know people want to ask where in the world are these kinds of gangs? Prayer. Meditation, Music , Working out and Writing are some of my forms of distressing. And can’t pump myself up for having this so-called grand life without explaining what exactly keeps me on my knees.
The Bullying thing is something I had experience as a child and seemingly experience today. I was a little girl. I was often mistaken all the time for being much younger. I didn’t have these “sudden” growth spurts. I was just little! The story of King David slaying the “giants” ranks in the top 10 stories that helped me deal with the bullies in my life. My mother has to strongly talked to me about not giving in to fear. It’s bad when the bullying starts within the circles of the family and often it was the silly women. People don’t want to believe that we still have bullies over 40. I believe you have some issues when you are child that bullies but I think you are just nuts when you passed adulthood and you still have issues.
Why a female make beauty and a man her life I can’t quite grasp the concept myself.
I had to learn I am not half of person seeking the other half… I am whole before my husband arrives. That cattiness is disturbing and most men don’t understand either especially when they marry their “poisonous asp”. At some point he has to man up and tell his sister, wife, mother or whomever the female is… GET IT TOGETHER!!!!
It’s one of my hearts cry is that we get it right… It might not be the perfect solution but we have to grow up. The strong components of being well-rounded might not begin with how fabulous you look on the outside its what’s coming from the inside.
It’s easier to be kind and I have to wonder what happened with some women in their lives that contributes to the messiness of the day?
Telling my “experiences is the plight…because we in the church don’t want everyone to know that storms and the dysfunction that goes ignored until the unthinkable happens. It’s at this point of course…God is brought into it, when on the surface with issues out front God is often left out!
Strongly I have led the life experiences of the dealing with the “insecure” females. I feel almost compelled to at least try to explain to others some of the battles we have to go through .
I don’t know what happened in their homes and frankly, I don’t really care … it’s what I respond to today. Many of us have been through something in our lives. You can have both parents in the home and the results of why some people are just hateful. Whatever the variable are… is that still warranted for the immature behavior. Some have unfortunately married and married other individuals who have just as many issues as they have.
I learned this early on… if we don’t learn to challenge ourselves to grow up how will we function. Learn to celebrate yourselves instead of comparing and focusing. Women can be sometimes the most complex creatures and they really don’t have to be. Why a woman becomes insecure many things might influence the behavior but it doesn’t mean you give into it. All I know whatever your problem is it starts with them. The behavior is also dangerous…because they often legends in their own minds.
You want to meet some cruel folks find a church which harbors these demons! Many turn their nose up on street corner hustlers and documented gang members. The real community cancers are troubles carried from the homes, to the community and they bring the garbage to the church. Where you would think some kind of purification would begin and often it doesn’t . Real commitment to being an agent of change starts from within not from a building. The buildings harbor the filth and the filth infiltrates the church. It is the Body of Christ which fights the principalities other than that…The church is another place to plant demonic seeds if there is no sense of God’s word being implemented in private as well as public.
How about… the church has some documented gang members as well and more than often they are coddled to be more meddlesome and bring the church off of its spiritual equilibrium and excuses are made why they are allowed to keep a demonic atmosphere which not only hinders the church with God but will bring some storms to places of worship not for correction but spiritual death!