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HOW CAN A MAN RUN THE HOUSE OF GOD WHEN HE CAN’T MAINTAIN HIS OWN HOME?
On today, I found out about a woman who has stood behind her Pastor husband, who has been led to believe he is a great man of God. During some of his recent events in their lives he has grown progressively more evil. And because of the nature of what he does in the “name of God”…He was held captivity in another country .
And the greatest bombshell is that she is getting more rest away from him than all the years of being married. He was very abusive and some stories too bothersome to share. She said she needed time to rest, and pray on how to move forward. Her words, “she is tired” of living with the lies and facades…
As a First Lady, she is maintaining it all! She is the help, she wore the masks and now she is tired of hearing how wonderful he is, when in fact he everything but that to her and her children. That’s generally how it goes. The wife, has the secrets and the truth behind the man!
The selfishness behind men like these … Is that it’s always going to be about them and use God as a crutch to diminish his wife’s life by keeping her secondary while he does what he wants! She is abused often by the people that he serves! He can’t handle the pressure of being forth coming and the lies of being exposed. His excuses are … we will pray about it, you’re better than this. Yet,everything he does is without prayer and never seem to inquire God about his agendas. He say that he is called to do this…
And you wonder why the children grow up and give you another story on how awful their father was or is…How much God is their true lifestyles when they “think” no one is looking and no one will tell the true story!
Even with the men we thought were great…What great of lies have been told when they wanted to be deem as heroes but character and integrity is never implemented in their lives. America props liars up all the time neglecting to tell how they had no truth inside them… but we are to be sold on their greatness. How great can you be with the lies stemmed with applauds and God is disgusted?… The ugly part about our history it’s never been corrected!
I have heard more than my share of stories… of ABUSE, INFIDELITY…AND CORRUPTIONS BY WOMEN WHO ARE MARRIED TO PASTORS AND MEN OF POWER.
My first warning to all the single ladies that think marriage is something cute… Marriage is truly for mature people. Young or old, rich or poor, educated or uneducated… infidelity isn’t looking for boundaries. If all of his eyes wander before marriage… You are setting yourself up for more heartache. A lusty man, plays games on a female heartstrings. Everyone isn’t cheating on their wives and everybody isn’t philandering. Marriages will hit some bumps in the road but some bumps will make you reiterate how important your marriage really is and hen should your wife leave. The biggest lie, in ministry is that God sends one man to do all his work. God is for marriage and the family. So , why would he destroy it?
Many use ministry and power for leadership as a playground to philander! God will deal with anyone who claims to be messenger for him while whoring out of both drawer legs. I have told so many men to go HOME. First Ladies, put up with a lot, to be honesty, she is the one the bares the most weight. Why? The Pastor’s wives generally sees what he continues to miss. And God forbid if her husband is blind to all that she has experienced. God will rally behind the man’s good things but loathes the rogues. He doesn’t want his “Princesses” given to frogs. If he is to man up it should before he even thinks about having a wife.
Women, the worst thing you can do is look for a man, you don’t need to hunt a male down. All you have to do is position yourself to be a lady in the midst of all the whores that want him for only his power and nothing more. Delilah waits the fool out. She know that your husband is simple and that he is pumped up on who wants him instead of his wife needs him. Delilah, entices him with make up and all the things that camouflages what she is and what she really looks like . She knows he is perverted somewhere, so she seeks his Achilles heel…by playing in his head.
If you are chosen for marriage ,make sure you wisely choose him back. Be not unequally yoked. Folks fall in love with all kinds of stuff… People often shift blame why a marriage goes bad… The most danger to any marriage when it’s govern under false pretenses… You can change what’s not inside of him. If he is “slick” before marriage he is even grimmier afterwards. There is no need of getting angry when the women come on to him.. Get angry that he allows it…the undercover ego booster… He lures them !
Here is where it gets so darn demonic… Men lie and say God said… Your mission is never greater than God or bigger than denial and your lies. Stop praying for your marriage to work , when you know you continue to do things to sabotage your own marriage.
Some Pastors actually believe it’s okay to look and have a side piece… These aren’t true men of God, they are whores with robes and collars.
God said you can make a covenant with your eyes. (Jobs 31:1) I never take anyone serious when he can’t practice self control or keep ( Little Willy) in his pants!
The hypocrisy is we teach one thing to our male children and the evidence of their lives say another. He saw his father disrespect his mother. You wonder why so many children are fatherless. Let’s talk the hypocrisy of the church. Being ” Father” means to neglect having a wife, and a family. Think about the craziness? We set things in motion to attack marriage and the family. Serving God doesn’t have a thing to do with holding sex organs or abstinence because of man doctrine. It’s not biblical and sound teaching! Yet, we have made excuses for abuse of any kind toward the women. The men teach our sons how chipper chase and girl watch …Do you have to wonder why he likes the Strip Club. Oh yeah, we have partial strip clubs On Sunday during church hours. When females who isn’t dressed modestly, while the son watch his father…lust in other manners. I tell men this all the time… Women know when you are special!
Sorry folks, many in the pulpit have no idea who God is. Preaching is another way of getting over on the feeble minds. Those who may have started out doing right… Got a whiff of power and then it’s been going south ever since.
Some Pastors wives today, undyingly cope with many things. Sharing their spouse isn’t always the issue but the foolishness he believes that God will maintain his family that he has purposely neglected and abused her.
God gives NO MAN to ministry for him to inflict wounds on the woman he has chosen for him. First Ladies deal with more of the he fruitlessness than he does. He is blinded by his call but not what he is commissioned to do. God doesn’t give her husband to the world and allow him to abuse her in other ways. She is he is hindsight…. She hears the gossip, she sees the corruption, she feels the neglect when he does the ultimate occupational hazard… HE brings work home which hinders the marriage and ignore his weak sides!
Too many things can comeback to hunt legacies. Lies are exposed with who we think were or are great leaders. In fact, many ride the lines of psychopaths. Not necessarily the serial killer but the executioner when it comes to abusing others for “SELF”. Most narcissist, get quite emotional when you come down their street. They hate exposure and easily embarrassed. They are offended easily because you didn’t go along with their nonsense, You are categorized as not being loyal or faith enough but he entirely forgets how to be her man, husband and a father. It’s all about HIM!. The self extreme that gets “high” on being applauded and quite the manipulator. Ego is on steroids, he loves the attention but he ignores the warning signs that DIVORCE IS…IMMINENT! Abuse isn’t apart of God’s plan for any First Lady.
He is the one who suffers the most is his history because who he portrayed to be… isn’t what God will allow to come out. But his character that was never developed. He wont ever be remembered for all the great things that he has done but remember for what he has failed to do in the sight of God.
Everlast isn’t her last name, she isn’t your mother, she isn’t who you neglect, she is who you take up first and everything else comes behind it…We love to say when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing… yet, no one shares what happens to the favor when he abuses her!