NOTHING ANGERS ME MORE…THE STING OF WATCHING YOUR PERSECUTORS ROAM FREE

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A taste of bad medicine from police brutality to sex abuse in the church. Where is the true accountability to ever get  justice?  What does it matter if  the nation saw it all? Isn’t it amazing when we see the wrong and its never corrected. I warn even in ministry the practice of looking the other way. Who is better?  Everyone likes to blame but very little step up and say its wrong? How can you be the same knowing that your loved one died at the hands of power  tripping police… or sexually abused by perverted priests?

Open up your eyes… This country talks and protest moral decay but so many still gravitate to more show than tell! 

What can anger a person more knowing that they have abused, maimed, killed one of your loved ones and they are “allowed” to draw pensions and run free to hurt another? This fuels me on a daily to watch the people who have hurt you stay in positions or to watch justice fails us again!

I remind people think about every time you have to relive the person or people who have hurt someone you love walk free? What temptation to become bitter or full of rage?

The gnawing when you look at someone who is lying and the others stand in agreement as sign of solidarity and you or a  loved one is violated or dead?

I know what is more than a challenge when the truth is present, the evidence is still there and so are the cameras! And justice still isn’t being served. Foolishly people stay in denial but what about those who lived the nightmare? Sadly, our country is perpetrating it like so many others it stand for what it chooses to stand and ignore what it choose to ignore!

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WHAT HARD WORK?

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There is nothing like braggart saying…they have a great job but never works! Yet, many say they go to work everyday and get free pay checks. I have never seen so many “lazy” folks in my life. And get quite angry when they are called out about not working. I believe in speaking with people who take their jobs seriously. I don’t feel sorry for people who spend years getting paid for a job they fail to do. I do understand when local and state government have to halt spending.

How many get “welfare checks” without going into a state agency? They parlay doing absolutely nothing all day as if laziness is that of the norm! They are last to get to work and the first to leave on time!

We really need to get our obligations together. People suffer as it is and then there is the mind of game of being depending on others to serve you and got a darn attitude about it! God forbid if they service the public serving and angry and still got a job!

Unfortunately, I do understand some state cuts because of all the frivolous time and spending Illinois has catered to for years! City workers are no different the waste of time and money but get paid anyway! When will our people take responsibility for years of abuse state, city and counties!  More and more some people have loyalty to their jobs not because they do them but it makes them lazier!  

I almost frightened even in the medical profession the bad attitudes when they have to work for real… As if your presence annoys them! We can established some good budget strategies  if we just get rid of all the lazy workers and slackers! The ones that wont miss a day of work because they aren’t working anyway and its the best gig in town.

We need to really assess what we call gainfully employed! Leaving out there doesn’t necessarily means that they are welfare recipients of another kind!

It’s time we reevaluate our priorities in the nation and in our cities. Times are getting more difficult and who is honestly paying for services we don’t get anyway! 

THE POWER OF HEALING AFTER BEING ABANDONED AND DISOWNED…

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Disowned means to be forcibly denounced.The impact of being disowned is more prevalent today than talked about. Don’t get this twisted people can disown  you with posterior of not saying or doing a thing.

Many have the emotional scars of being rejected and abused because of no fault of their own  . Whether its’ your family, school, society and even religious communities. Being “different” comes with a price. Being abandoned  and rejected among our “own” is more common than one would like to believe! The conflict is sometimes hidden and not so much on the surface. 

It’s when the gathering starts. There “collectively”  is an atmosphere purposely set to keep you or force you out! Unless you are familiar with being the outsider or what one might call the “black sheep”. It might not be that obvious to the naked eye!  

And because of the Joseph syndrome ( Genesis Chapter 37)the odd ball knows when they are not WELCOMED. Others ignore how bad it really is so they remain quiet and make excuses! Instead of intervening  against the behavior

The issues that comes along when one is disowned is a harsh reality about the heart of  people. From own experiences with many arenas when you aren’t accepted. The fight against jealousy, prejudices or just sheer cruelty of just not being liked. The fight to keep you out is real. And there is always a witness to do the right thing by the “oddball” and then you see for yourself that they rather not get involved… this is when anger and bitterness can set in. But you must move beyond when others wont stand by you or protect you… It’s at this point you have to decide to be healed and shake the dust from “UNDER” your feet and move on!

 I had to turn what others wanted to be negative into something positive. No one can deny the fight to keep your head above water when dealing with the negative impact of others.

So many I have already witnessed that are so messed up  and the issues are never dealt with so their “evil” is passed along! They can only relate to those who are just as harsh as they are! They never heal because the pain has become their callous.

 Some people that attend church are there waiting for that supernatural experience with God only to be met with more opposition and rejection. And the most horrific experiences that come from any church is dealing with adequate people among staff or the clergy itself who lack the compassion and the interpersonal skills to deal with hurting people. Oh we can stop the fruitless staff members who many know are just trouble makers with titles and position.

Satan keeps them in place to keep God’s people from not growing  up spiritually mature. Spiritually mature isn’t by far a definition of church attendance, how many church events you attend, nor how many years of membership. Growing up spiritually mature means that not only do I follow God but I am a lover of truth!

NO one wants to talk about the “jacked up” people who have the nerve to be in ministry and injure Gods people beyond repair. Until they don’t want anything to do with a church.  I concur! 

How can one healed after years of a broken heart? Its easier said than done.   In the ideal world we can embraced being different or who someone is. We know that’s not true because prejudices and racism is more alive today than ever before. The empowered is healing after dealing with rejection and your able to stand to tell the story. People are  often led to believe the “cotton candy”…watered down version of just how cruel and dysfunctional people really are! There is this “script” that many live by although they will “Never” tell others how bad it really was growing up in dysfunctional families. 

Being more educated  and well to do doesn’t exempt how emotionally flawed so many are including yourself. This can be very painful and you must make conscious choices to embrace the right things. Rejection is just as powerful  healing instead of moving past the pain some tend to hide among those  who are just as messed up as you are! Sometimes after being “rejected” people have a tendency to latch on to more of the superficial, this can also include, the wrong people, places and things.

So that one don’t want to seem weak so they camouflage. Misery adores company. Instead of being confrontational about the hurt the wall is build with others who are just as mean-spirited and bitter! 

There are those who may some challenges mentally on a serious level but I’m speaking of another kind of imbalances that society deemed as normal.  People aren’t that accepting and the church has become even worse. 

As if this kind of instability is somehow rewarding! I think the real shocker comes in when you live to see how so many don’t deal with how bad it is.  Some  churches has become more about money and members than being the characteristics of Christ!  The calculated, coldness of not being caring or concern. Christ isn’t concerned with how many it the pew but what empowers them after sitting in them. We see more cattiness and pettiness.

We can’t pretend we care about what happens in the world when we can’t govern ill behaviors on our watches inside the church. Some see what happens and dare not rock the boat. The fear of losing members is always at the forefront of  a leaders mind. Who cares who gets hurt as long as it doesn’t interferes with their “selfish” agendas. Ignorantly not paying attention and maybe God is testing you to stand for what is right other than SELF.

god will hold everyone accountable that gets abused  anyplace especially inside the church. When I write this I have certain people in mind. When there is no true love of God people get hurt by people who have “NO BUSINESS” in ANY ministry! Looks are deceiving it’s their actions that God sees and will judge them for their harshness.    Being disowned especially when you are a truth teller is what is hindering prayers and progress in the church. More hate is spread than love!

How can we even begin to speak to the world about “injustices” and so many get beat up mentally or become another church statistic. What do I mean?  People see when people are honest about their walk with God it shows. Not that is shows up on Saturday or Sunday with their Sunday’s best attitude that last all of 30 minutes!  

 I come to encouraged those who have  been disowned in any capacity even if it’s your fault. Forgive them and forgive yourself but don’t  “allow” people to dictate you from reaching God’s best.  The painful truth about the people we love they don’t know how or care to love you back. I understand the  fight to stay focused is difficult!

People say  “I love to hard but rather be this way than love less.  Love will catapult you in so many ways and will be ‘honored” by God especially! When you have a heart to love and rise above all the bad experiences of being disowned God will put the right people and environment after training days among those who abused you!

It can be hard and painful and you might even cry with thought of being disowned or rejected. I promise God I warn get among people who embrace you even if they are not blood related. Often times strangers treat you best! Go among people who need love it will take you mind off of those who abused your love.  Ask God for a clean heart (Psalm 51) This cleanses you spiritually from the wounds that are now scars! Yet, even the most painful experiences God prepares the table in the presence of your enemies and then he ELEVATES YOU! 

ATTRACTIVE NUISANCES…AMERICA DUMBS DOWN TO MORE “CRY BABIES”

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“ATTRACTIVE NUISANCES… the doctrine applies to the laws of torts in the United States that a landowner maybe held liable even if property that  have legal permits but draws you in with its attractiveness” .

Jimmy said… I don’t feel like myself, I feel like I can identify with the Lion… so let me act like the “King of Jungle”… I am so free-spirited I  know I can go among the animals and not be HARMED…Sorry Jimmy the jungle didn’t want him and ate him. This sounds so stupid that a man felt like he was called among the wild to be one of his own. Certain things this country goes for today is unbelievable to make certain people, groups satisfied! When I have seen “neglect” on many government levels that is simple off the meter!

I can’t believe how so many are so deceived with America’s  attractive nuisances. All the signs point to other upsets in the long haul. So it gets easier to shove the mess down the people’s’ throats!  Being politically correct is one thing but entirely ignorant is another. We don’t anyone telling us which “bathrooms” are correct for us. Take one look below it answer the question. I UNDERSTAND PHYSICAL MEDICAL  ISSUES THAT MIGHT REQUIRE HOW TO IDENTIFY…BUT THAT’S IT! Why should this be going any further?  And I know I am not being insensitive but I am a little taken with just how this country goes to support this or that cause… And wont embrace that we lack more freedom than we think. Systemic poverty and hunger lack of education, violence is out of control, 

So many people are dumbing down to society personal preferences and not doing the homework on the long-term effects when we give into what people want than what is needed.  Wat is really important now says its what one might identify with. Where are the boundaries?

I can’t believe our society spends so much time finding foolish  things to embrace.  I am NOT confused where I should be even if I identify myself on other issues then what?

Once we start this foolishness it continues! America has no boundaries and its a bottomless pit of what might turn up next. At some point we should be able to stand for something. Moral decay is limitless from White House to church house.

Today people have so many gripes and have become super sensitive on so many issues which some of this stuff is sheer common sense. When people can’t discern simple things and turn everything into a fight but will look the other way with lies that are told to satisfy the unquenchable flesh. It wants!  The subliminal mind game is that we are given a little bit a time for the test the palette  to see how much  will the people  received. The dosage of moral decay is slowly given until the people start to ignore the  confusion and the collateral damages. It’s then we look up to see what was easily open is now opening doors for other things to tank this country! 

WHY CHURCH MISTRESSES ARE TELLING ALL…

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THE SINFUL ELITIST AND SELF RIGHTEOUS GROUPIES TURN THEIR NOSE UP AT  THE  REAL GOSPEL. THAT’S WHY MANY ARE AFRAID OF INDIVIDUALS THAT KNOW THEIR “HOLD CARDS”… YET, THEY STAY TO MAKE SURE ALL SINS LOOK ALIKE … AND WHEN THEY GET ANGRY OR DEMANDS ARE NOT MET, THEY TELL IT ALL….

No one wants to say it but what we want to  hold in such high esteem is becoming more and more contaminated with evil than good! The church isn’t sacred it’s what you relationship with God that is sacred. Too many rules that many don’t follow themselves. Too much god complex among unhealthy spiritual leadership. God is turned off by it and so am I!

I am not turning people on to church but I am awakening many out of spiritual stupor thinking you are led by the real thing in a church. Too many excuses are being made about all this illicit behavior! God doesn’t condone such nonsense! 

I have seen Pastor wives and mistresses all in the same church! It’s not uncommon for brawls to breakout. That is why a Pastor that has whorish ways stay nervous or one the edge. He or she knows the atmospheres that they set in motion. Playing with anyone’s heart is becoming more and more dangerous! 

I saw them play the games by leading women on flirting undercover…  Being a Pastor doesn’t means he is less than human but church is abused in this fashion quite a bit! He or she knows that stakes are high when you get into ministry. If you don’t keep a strong level of discipline you will find yourselves in some pits!

The truth is coming out about so many who use ministry as a way of advancing themselves even sexually! I have seen the games they play which has been the upper hand for me because I am aware of the games in the name of God.  I can almost smell the foolishness in what a Pastor might believe will be his or her well-kept secrets! They are sexually pursued by the thirstiest it too is a cat and mouse game for them. Women know when they have someone who can be a conquest… Even if only for the chance to  expose them to say their nothing to them and that they are fakes!It’s  ironic how the same dog is being captured with the same games and it works!  The opportunity  to show others that how “Stupid”  they are!  Egos cloud better judgment. 

And when  the church get genuine and sincere leaders  in ministry they come to grips that the church isn’t into getting themselves aligned spiritually but they are there for the hook up whatever that might be!

That is why many stay in churches for years… not a history that is full of spiritual growth but a history of manure! A church and have thousands among thousands that attend and I can give a number that only a few or educated on the things of God and rest lies tradition. 

Thing  that they have to confront and that is spiritual corruption in the church house. I know the skinny on Pastors who love the women chasing them even if he or she a tired old shoe box… The desperation of the chase as if they are diseased in the mind some how!

This keeps his or her  evil  morales in high gear and it wont be long when he or she knows who lusts after them.  They are flattered, so the lead people in th wrong direction into believing they will. be the chosen one. I get tickled because they are married, single or somewhere in between. The sexual tryst is real…are often instigated by the pastors!   

Every time something come forth negatively about the church. I shake my head for these apparent reasons BUT much hasn’t change! The same nonsense continues and without too much push back from those who are on Boards and allow the behavior continue. Many have retired from ministry because of the lack of checks and balances! Moral decay is an understatement. When someone sheds light on torrid affairs that are wide open and people tend to ignore someone who claims to speak the oracles of God. Weight heavily when we want to call spiritual leadership. What has turned me off completely is the lack of accountability and the fake transparency.

Mistresses have the ammunition whether it’s the text messages, dirty pictures or the one-sided  love letters!  Even if feelings aren’t  reciprocated it is still what builds in their mind  that makes him or feel fine about themselves! Mistresses keep the world informed that the whole church thing still comes up janky whether we have good leaders or not…its all the bad apples that make us lose credibility!

What is supposed to be kept real is becoming more tainted and haunting.   What gives me divine anger is that so many are fakes in the pulpit and the people are easily led astray and then very good leaders have to deal with the aftermath once exposure of the church cover ups!  They stand flat-footed and say what the Lord has to say…and it’s no wonder why so many are coming forth and putting their business on front street!  Its’ embarrassing to say the least.

More people are coming forth about serial molesters who have been allowed to minister knowing that rape, and sexual assault are criminals and the church still remain silent.  And it always has to take that one to tell you where his mole is located and then the church becomes abusive because someone is exposing what they should have stood against! Of course, these are not  CHURCHES OF GOD… they are just churches.

Unfortunately I had to back up and reexamine my call to ministry and  fairly keep my distances especially with those who have no character or integrity.  All you have to do is see what surrounds that leader and you might have a snippet into their world. No man or  woman of God is isolating themselves with questionable things…It wont take long before you see his or her demons fully embodied! That’s why  I stand back and see the madness for myself, so that I can get a clear indication of where a ministry actually about. Sadly, more than ever …GOD IS USED IN THE GAMES!

You may not  know everyone’s spiritual resume’ but I better not find out  its tainted either! Spineless but sinful dominates many of the materialistic churches! If it takes the mistress to expose dirty Pastors… So be it.

I have a difficult time believing that so many so-called men and women of God are always aligned with devils. How can you preach against devils when you are one them? A lot of Pastors being murdered for outside extracurricular activities straight and gay!

That is why so many can’t handle when lies are exposed anything where light is exposing cockroaches they scatter to run only migrate in another hiding place. When  someone comes full throttle about a Pastor I am not shocked at the behavior but more and more embarrassed that we have sometimes once respectable leaders falling prey to the enemies traps!

Interracial Relationships that Changed History | PBS

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Some are still afraid to change history… Interesting read!

Discover the groundbreaking rulings, cases and people that have shifted social attitudes about interracial relationships and marriage around the world.

Source: Interracial Relationships that Changed History | PBS

THE COWARDS WHO LOOK THE OTHER WAY…WHEN WILL PEOPLE LEARN TO CARE?…

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“I understood James Brown the first time I heard the song…and what resonate more today than ever…”TALKING LOUD AND SAYING NOTHING”…AND LETS ADD AIN’T DOING ANYTHING EITHER!

The new vocal fashion statement that sounds like a warped recording. Accountability and transparency. They have been parents of mines forever. What’s so new about it… It’s robotic responses and rebuttals and what sounds so perfect when people want social change.

What infuriates me  when I see people who are so self indulged into they are too insensitive  to help someone and are the first to cry foul ball when it tanks for them!  I understand when you might be in fear of your life but what happened to just calling for help?

Many today are not taught  early to be fraudulent in stands today. Why I have so much to say because injustice is everywhere and we limit ourselves to just personal causes. To stand up for anything  make some poster signs and holler injustice but fail to assist their neighbors! I know, many ride out on   not none of their  business until it happens to them!

Then  whirls inspirational messages and saying  posted up on social media about every injustice they have encountered and fail to remember how many they stepped on to seek  justice for someone else besides their circles!

I think what is more than a total disgrace is  how people are spoon fed on how to ignore ” certain” injustices, because of fear of being abandoned, rejected,  called out, or retaliation!

Our society is  the most hypocritical…and it teaches our  young  that history is manipulative and lying but in the same token teaches our children to  be disrespectful  and  lie their way through thoughts and actions!  Our customs train our children to be about SELF and rebuke authority! They learn from the best how to become selective in what to get involved in even in religion! If  they look a certain way, status, if they live in certain areas our society set the attacks in motion by what we co-sign on even in the name of justice!

What beats inside any person’s “chest”will reveals where they are. The painful part is that so many have this deep criteria before getting involved! When all they need is courage and some backbone!  

Children today aren’t stupid… they see one thing and then there are actions in who our nation has not completely told the truth about. Even in history we have made many who were deceptive in history to be heroes! And when children ask us questions about what they discovered the defense mechanism of covering up and lies take precedence!

People  say one thing but the children see their actions. There are so many who comment on what the people should say and do and it’s the smallest things that they fail to do and that is stand up no matter who it is.  

Let me share why I take it so personal when people FAIL to get involved after being wronged or faced injustices. And sometimes  wrongs are committed without all the ducks lined up in a row  and people then make their case why they didn’t get involved!  Even with so many I learned  terrible lessons about the loud mouths who do nothing but talk but their actions told me a lot!  I honestly l don’t think people care about proof because they have an idea how they would flow anyway!

The outrage that I feel when  I know people know what’s right but run in hide when its time to either PUT UP OR SHUT UP!  You have to fight bitterness when you life and your experiences are not valuable to them! I say them because we have selective  justice in this country, in this state, on blocks, in our community and in even in the church. So many look the other way… because standing means you have to stand up straight  and stop bending their backs. 

Yet, even with technology people still look the other way and make excuses why you didn’t help. I think this is what fuels me…so many don’t care about what happens on their watch!  It makes you ANGRY…When you know that you have been violated and people make excuses because it then requires that you step up.  God knows I pick people apart when they say they stand for this and stand for that…but then you see what they really stand for!

I have heard all the hoopla about what we need to stand for and  standing today comes with conditions and game playing.  Cold blooded killers get more play than an elderly  man who is knocked and beaten. They are silently called cowards while the big mouths seek press!  What if someone stomped you, kicked you in the face or  put a gun to your head? Can  you imagine the mental scars this leaves? What if it’s you?

 No one   had compassion and human decency  to  stand for a college student that was beaten for her I Phone on Chicago’s  public transportation and no one did nothing?! How is it that so many hearts are that cold?

Its amazing why so many get involved in different things for media attention but the there is never a public outcry when we see the severity of just how bad it is so it’s not wisdom picking the fight but basically who they can whip on without being exhausted.

It’s not about SAYING THE  RIGHT THINGS… BUT DOING THE RIGHT THINGS IS WHEN WE  GET THE WHOLE TRUTH! 

A young man was knocked unconscious and someone ran over the man and no one cared…yet again! How is the value of human life is down to dollars and cents! From personal experience it depends on whats in the dog fight for them! Sometimes being attacked isn’t important until it is was one of theirs! People who want justice wont turn a blind eye even ifs one of your picks! When true humanity is shown they don’t care who it is that has been violated! There should be an excuse why you didn’t step up or step out. People may think and see one thing… But more importantly God knows the REAL YOU!!

OLD MADE OR OLD MAID?… JUMPING THE BROOM OR STEPPING ON IT!

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Why people pull out all the claws to claim territory that really isn’t theirs is another mind blower!  It’s called “STALKING”.  I share level of bullying that people don’t believe is apart of being spooky and way off based.

And then they tell their story of being in love with someone who wont even looked at them twice! A true story… A woman told me that she was preparing herself to marry a man, who was not only not interested in her but thought that he needed a “restraining order”.  

I knew the minute that I heard conversations I knew that  she needed a doctor,…seriously! I was amazed at how many people she said was her friend but no one stopped the craziness. Her phone was full of photos of a man should couldn’t have. 

Of course I knew she was nuts…but she was stalking him. I asked her didn’t she think her behavior was off based. She was smiling and laughing as if I was the one that was off.

Poor thing  needed some serious help and the family had  sort of distance themselves because of this fanatical and maniacal behavior. She had been accused of stealing and doing all kinds of  psychotic things. I noticed that people she surrounded herself with and some common thread among them. They were all chasing things that they couldn’t have! 

She tried to align herself with some of his friends, followed him around town. One thing I did respect about the gentleman. He handled her with “kid gloves”.  At first but then he saw the other side, once he basically called her a “stalker”.  

He is a celebrity but he keeps a low profile with all that groupie stuff because he was like myself… We were taught that aligning ourselves with flattery is dangerous and keep the right perspective with people who follow you!  

Some people love being adorned and praised until they get that dark side. The game is to not play with folks emotions no matter how sane  you think they are. You will find out how mentally  imbalanced are when you say NO!  

The female was highly educated but she opened her mouth and begin to let her conversation loose she can go so far there! She keeps this side away from others because it is easily detected. It wasn’t really  a secret but something people ignored. She was beyond narcissism. I knew this woman crossed boundaries and no one wanted addressed how crazy she really was!  

I knew  of her but then I had to investigate things on my own when I had my experience with her!  Liar  was still a good word this woman needed to be committed this is just how far it went.

When I found the length of her criminal behavior she has attached herself to many people in the oddest ways including the church. What wasn’t the shock of my life others knew about it, and ignored her!  

You see, her fascination with wanting to be  married,she was getting older and it became obsessive. She had found the right man after the last 10 she stalked!  

The fantasy started  at a young age.  The idea that she  will be swept her off her feet, give her  the white house with two children and the white picket fence along with the dog called “SPOT!”  

If someone wants you they want you… praise your time of knowing who are before getting entangled with who doesn’t want you! Women who become borderline psychopaths wishing and praying for a love who doesn’t want it! So many  criminal stories that I have read and heard when someone is so head over heels in love with a fantasy. If it’s there its there…  I know that if he isn’t the “ONE”… I am sure God has replacement plans. 

Sometimes who you think you might have a lot in common turns out to be more than a handful. Marry someone who is worth knowing and loving if this is to be apart of your future.

 People do more working on giving the farce than facing the reality. If someone loves you he or she isn’t going to make you be  or act criminal. Drunk or crazy love isn’t a healthy love especially when it’s one-sided!

Some people aren’t marriage material or even worth the investment! One predictable factor is when you are the only one engaging and the other party isn’t!

Women who are serving time because of  what he said or what they thought!  Games are being played in the name of love.  When it’s too late the person has done some terrible things and  some will face that they need help!  You go to know when to walk away and set boundaries. Egos draw the feeble heart and mind.  The fantasy of being married before they get too old is the old maid syndrome. Instead of staying old made for the right person!  

I have yet to see a heterosexual woman make a gay man straight. And some actually try!  I have yet to see a woman of class straighten out trash and thinks he knows her worth when he have no idea of who he is! 

If a clock is ticking let it tick in favor and freedom of know your self-worth  instead of clicking from behind bars after doing something stupid in fantasy love that brings heartaches, suffering  and with no idea of who you are!

PLEASE HELP ME DO THIS FOR LUCAS…

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I got the NBC  News feed on yesterday regarding a  child that lives in the Belmont Cragin area of Chicago.  Lucas “Bear’ Cervone who is battling and incurable cancer… All he wants is Birthday cards!  I though just maybe readers could not only do this for Lucas but please be mindful that some children are ill. I am a supporter of St. Jude Children’s Hospital, who takes care of sick children with no cost involved. .

Lucas’s story brought me to tears because when someone who is ill and especially a child it takes it toll on the human heart. You can’t imagine the heartache and the stress! For his 6th Birthday, May 7th…his parents would like for people to send him cards!

Lets also send Lucas and his family prayers, and support. This could be anyone’s family!

Thank you! 

Lucas Bear Heroes or Lucas Bear
40 East Chicago Avenue., No. 162,  Chicago, Illinois 60611

IF WE BAN THE “N” WORD WE SHOULD ALSO BAN THE REST OF THE RACIAL SLURS!!!!!

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         “MY BACK ISN’T WET UNTIL I TAKE A BATH OR SHOWER”

I came outside and someone said…”Oh I didn’t know you were Puerto Rican?… Wow! Does it matter?   For the oddest reasons, when I am asked where did I come from I get terribly offended?   I am asked this by many African-Americans. As If I  hatched on my own.  

I got to have just enough “Sista” with most African-Americans to make the color grade. The King’s English is still bothersome for those who believe that being a hood rat takes precedence and reign supreme to being “black! OH SHUT UP ALREADY!!!!

 For certain color has African-Americans messed up too! What one think is the   typical stereotypic or racial slur! Being called Taco Bell or  Ms. Burrito… are not the nicest things to say.  Although we know what they mean but its the negative connotations behind them  what makes it nasty in taste!

 I’d go someplace in certain parts of Chicago and I am  told to go either on the East side of Chicago or Little Village. This is where most of the many of Hispanic community vibes… I am led to the “brown community”. 

In the 21st century racism is alive and well  and any race can be prejudice. Yes, I heard the nonsense that African-Americans are NOT racist…and I know this is one of the biggest lies ever told!  In fact, I have more encounters with racism within than outside!

We seem to ban truth…when it comes to what freedom of speech is. Although you have the freedom to say what you want but still as sense of common courtesy to yourselves and others we should be careful about what comes out of our mouths.  And I know how to decipher is a person is using it in its proper context than a racial slur by naming me … after a taco! Same, same…but we fail to see the hatefulness in making statements like that! If the term Ms. Watermelon was applied to African-American… then they call these pompous black leaders  to tell how much has been violated. Although they would be correct but it’s somewhat hypocritical to call someone a “cracker”…which is also a racial slur!

I have seen racism at its peak in all arenas,  including police brutality, and from people from other countries who migrate here  and start businesses and got the litigated gall to be racists!  

I was taught if you didn’t have anything good to say don’t say one word! I can’t guess what happens in your homes growing up where racism is taught. Yes, people do see color… Come on! We are different but the slight is there are stereotypes about different races. The word  Negro in Spanish means black. How  The N’ word isn’t the openly derogatory remarks I have heard out  people’s mouths and they think nothing of it! People are too afraid to talk race within a serious open dialogue. Blacks are not the only one who experiences racism… Us mixed folks catch hell! Anything can be taken out of context still one must discern when someone is coming for you even if you are labeled in any negative fashion!  Saying hateful things to degrade anyone should be a problem but it isn’t.  There  is this one who makes all kinds of hateful statements and he now running for President.

It doesn’t bother this nation enough to put a clamp on the racial disharmony no matter where it comes from!  One minute words are wrong it depends on who can afford to say them…The next minute it’s right because they  are used as terms of endearment! We can’t win until we as whole decides what is done in  poor taste…and being named after Mexican food is just as poor taste being labeled a N…..!