BAD PARENTING…STOP USING YOUR CHILDREN IN GROWN FOLKS MESS…

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 I recently pulled up at a restaurant, next to me were some children siting inside a hot vehicle. The children visibly hungry .  The female with the children was  apparently waiting on someone else . The female, easily pulled out  and rolled up her “doobie”… aka pot. 

She  begin to smoke her blunt right in front of the children. Whether they were her children  or not,  she got HIGH!!!

She felt disturbed by me looking at her and I looked at her…So she  got out of her vehicle and went to the back of it  and puffed away!  

Yet, this is more than bad parenting, or setting a terrible example.  She call herself keeping it real.  She figures ” I don’t hide my business I am straight up”… 

Oh Sweet Jesus… It’s just plain old stupidity!  Setting in motion to display what you want when you want. She thinks it’s harmless…. But this is who is  breeding  the angry  and the rebellious. Grown-ups with a lack of self-respect and self-control!  Children know when adults are wrong, they often  are subdued into being submissive to the adult bad decision-making and situations!

We see the madness on a regular basis. Unhealthy mindsets are damaging to a child’s growth. What about when the generational nonsense is passed down. And I have seen adults actually believe some of the most foolish things all because a parent said it.  To make better choices… I have to use my head for more than hat rack. Somethings in my life had to stop and start when I said… NO…

All because it sounds right doesn’t mean it was right! 

“Remember racism is taught and people actually thought that was the correct way to be… Add that along with the other family dysfunction and you practically have the spiritually dead”.

A bad parent doesn’t necessarily  have to be master blunt smoker… but a bad parent is also one who refuse to make mature, adult decisions governing a small person’s life. Which can enable the child stability emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Children see too much today and they lack respect because their parents lack respect. People  look to blame others for the lack there  of. Children are imitators.  If  Mom is messy… guess what they know and understand… If Dad, is a philanderer…Guess what they know…Relationships are fickle! 

Some people are in consistent in being  hypocrites. Do as say and not as I do? I didn’t follow that nonsense when I was younger… and it never works…If Daddy was a rolling stone… The image is to disrespect relationships… Being a player is what is demonstrator. 

Some of us know our parents were jacked up, there is no need to lie about it… I thank God for my Mother… My Dad was too immature, I saw it as a child…What does this guy know? I didn’t trust what he said or done my mother didn’t have to speak a word. I didn’t want to go too far with him anyplace. I never trusted his decision making based on how he treated my mother and how he didn’t act like an adult. He was kind of silly to me…

Although I never agreed with  my mother reminding me… How low he could go?  As a child that is none of my business and too much for me to process… You had the child by the man…so deal with it”… We all have gotten caught up in certain emotions when at some lowest points.  When we study to be calm and think about it…the results doesn’t have to end up in the “baby mama” drama!

The two parent household exist more than people think.  You can be physically in the home and still be absent. Mothers hold another kind of weight when it comes to their children. 

The insecure parent is  the one that sends me over the moon.   He or she is manipulative especially if one  decides that  the child  is to be controlled by emotion with their thumb! I talk about messy adults a lot because this  misplaces blame and never take the full responsibility is when  “PARENT ” is messed up!

“All because you can reproduce some actually need not to”.  

From divorce to petty jealousy… I have seen suppose to be adults use children in the middle of their foolishness to make sure the children side with them.  What angers me the most when I see adult fuel a situation based on their own agendas or their own insecurities…with conniving and manipulation.

We will all hate together!  So the children are pawns and they feel terrible as it is… and there is that  head sick parent who has issues of their own make a terrible nest in the child’s head.

 Children are already easily embarrassed and very sensitive and the added pressure of adults makes it even worse.  Some parents purposely “allow” children to participate or adhere in negative situations.  The games the adult play by pitting one parent against another, or the child is allowed to hear the negative ag The childishness of the adult is putting your child in the middle of grown folks nonsense. I have seen manipulative parents who know that their children has the correct attitude and begin to slowly brain wash the child into believing  the wrong way. It’s unhealthy to show and allow your children to witness  all of your emotional crap! 

I am almost amazed at adults who keep up consistent turmoil always believe in their minds that they deserve respect”… you speak one thing but the child see and hear another…

What are showing your child ESPECIALLY CHRISTIANS?

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DONT’ GET IT TWISTED CRIMINAL INSTIGATORS I AM NOT PARTIAL… LETS GET ALL THE “ROGUES” FROM THE PULPIT, POLITICIANS, TO THE POLICE…

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If there is any injustices to be had…we better start  with our own homes first… How many can protest foul when some of our homes are full of junk?  The order of the day from God is to first assess your damage in your own homes. Are you absentee parent or spouse? Is your own homes free of what can be harmful to mankind in any way? Be it illegal pistols, or parents ignoring rising gang activity or suspicious activity in your house? Is disrespect brewing because you rather not be uncomfortable with the word NO or you better NOT! . Being a parent is the start is a beautiful thing BUT it’s glorious when you start being a real parent instead of their party buddy.

Let’s get this out-of-the-way. If you know that your people are dope dealers, criminals among many other harmful cancers in our cities and communities. What are you protesting for when your lifestyle is in contrast for what you say you are marching for.  Everything out here isn’t a prophetic voice but “PATHETIC”…

Let me ask this question?  If there were no darn cameras and limelight for many of these causes would the PP…( Pulpit, Politicians} and ( cough)  opportunists, …be active?  To be quite honest many of them work my nerves! It’s a front! Just enough to appear involved.

There is something about community exhibitionist that drives me nuts!   God knows what everyone does in what kind of heart.  This is why people can’t take any of us seriously…too much drama in front of those cameras! I know many say “social media” is the way…Okay…stop getting angry when only sound bites are given! Awareness doesn’t just happens in front of camera opportunities… it comes in results when no one is looking! 

How many times have I seen who I know are rogues in our communities in marches. How many times have I seen “career politicians” afraid of their people but let there be a political opportunity you can’t get enough of them?

They play it safe for the most part but you should see the grit and grime when they think no one is watching!  How many times have I seen dirty pastors and don’t get me started on the fake “reverends”? It’s quite disturbing for me to see so many phony folks using “social causes” to push their grimy agendas!

Social Justice has been I believed misunderstood even by the “super educated”.  Telling someone you are a Christian and being one… differs from person to person. Although, it shouldn’t be that was…biblically Christ has to deal with rogues in his day. And every other schism was in the bible.

However, what gives me  a divine anger is the stupidity that many of them  ride out on. Religions  seem to be  selective on their sins. There is no one that can pardon a  man’s sin but CHRIST.  There is NO man or woman, King or Priest that is capable of pardoning anyone’s sin when most  are of full of sin! If this is so, then you are my God.

My point is that doing good doesn’t make you are disciple for Christ. No more that all because you are near and addicted to church makes you are in right standing with God. I have warned “satan loves going to church”. Don’t take your guards down!

Judge, Jury and Executioner doesn’t come with ANYONE according to the real Christian beliefs. And by the way for those who believe Christianity is biblical, it isn’t. My God advocates correction, pruning , and loving! We tend to believe in traditions more than the things of God. Some people are actually “shocked” at what God tells us to patter our lives after and from where I am standing the church has already bombed! People might say well you sound a little disgruntled with the church…Well, I might add that I am awaken at the shenanigans of man’s doctrinal beliefs that has nothing to do with God’s word that is called RELIGION!

You’d be surprise what God is all about. He isn’t partial to certain injustices although many people act this way. God cares about all of his people not this selective group.  He doesn’t advocate being a good man over a Godly man. 

Unfortunately that is why the church see huge hypocrisy  with smorgasbord sins in the pews as well as the pulpits. This fleshly body is never perfect but the God in us should push for excellence no matter what. 

I am only human is getting thin with the world especially when many people take church like a drug instead advocating ” agents of truth”… This rebuttal can go only so far.

Yet, the reality is that we all need to get our acts together and clean house” especially” those who say God called them to ministry and yet you are still messy… You might want to reconsider exactly what is calling you!

The hypocrisy with many Americans…We have selective amnesia and selective reasoning skills… We pick sins and injustices our choice. That is truly why we don’t see major changes in any movement. It’s temporary and it’s hype…

Truth will say when it’s bad it’s got to go…All across the board. Criminals are criminals even if they are “rogue clergy or rogue cops”…

You want to protest let’s get them all!  I know this is strong teaching and it will require! God doesn’t want a perverted priest over me no more than an abusive cop.  In our minds there is always this “but”… I say… Get you “butt” out-of-the-way! 

Status and materialism has ruined the church! Racism, prejudice, classism, sexism, and sheer jealousy   is  other problems that is more alive today in the church as well as mainstream. I can’t limit myself as a believer in Christ to one race of people but to the human race as God sees it!

For those who think you are beyond rebuke because you feel a better education puts you above the rest it doesn’t.  The truth is we more criminals very much educated than ever. Let’s try the State Of Illinois who loves to cover the prison systems across this country. Power and greed has messed this country up! Now we have counterfeit “social justice” teams… How can we bring justice without the truth and being the truth. How can you say you love and care for God’s people when some “fraudulent” leaders in Chicago… wont enforce simple beautification in their own cities. 

Small things like debris in front of your temples is first clear sign that there is debris elsewhere. People can’t take you seriously when they know all the mess that comes along with you…even if you think they can smell it… they see it!

THE CRIES OF GOD’S PEOPLE…CHURCH SHAMING WHEN YOUR BUDDIES ARE SOMEONE ELSE’S ENEMIES…

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Nothing grieve and  pangs me more when someone confides in you about a problem and the culprits are affirmed right in front of their faces. How many times  does a person tells someone you that they are being  abused, harassed or bullied? And the cries of people go ignore

Sadly, what a person feels is minimize… as if the pain of the  situation is  less important all because someone might  be fond of the perpetrator.  Or who they love and protect is an enemy to someone else.  Here is the reality on how so not “real” and the lack of being honest is damaging the church.

God forbid if they are a celebrity,  famous, highly educated or even rich…. The  double standards and the hypocrisy that  they have certain rules that only apply to “certain” individuals… If they have popularity they can’t be  serial rapist or an abusive leader?…But if it is a gangsta rapper , He is looked upon with disgust and instantly  called a thug or a criminal yet we, have criminals in the church, rapists, molesters, thieves, drug dealers and pimps can be mounted in his or her favorite garments of pretending be that of a Christian!  What are they called? Maybe …still gainfully employed!

Hmmm???

I can recall back  some years. I got a call in the wee hours of the night. I go to bed fairly early because I am up with the farmers.  A young  mother of 2  children, who was engaged with a so-called Christian male… I can’t call him a man!  God help me I can’t stand to look at him!

God help me when I see this “guy” he is the epitome of a being  perverted and a hypocrite!

Well, how he was ranting and raving about being real about his church… (Lord Have Mercy) with Jesus but sleeps with her  and (many underage young ladies)…every night not married and the sinner is the one who had the problem? Whew!

 And let me go here about what has really infiltrated the church. The same creepy individuals not mind fondling you or trying to rub against any females in the church. They actually believe that are okay doing whatever as if God is okay with such offensiveness to him.  I see this “crap” on a regular. These people are never sat down or dealt with…..Remember the “family of Eli ?” CURSED AND JUDGED!

He plays “Daddy” to her children but has someone  in  church he fails to claim while hugged up with another!  The engaged female moves in with this nut job. Another woman who I know her mother, so  I do know some of the craziness… She is appears at his doorstep with their son,…The one he fails to claim.

The engaged woman, questions him but I believe he wanted a threesome… So, after having sex with her . He becomes “abusive and perverted” … He grabs her up and make her pray to “his” god…for forgivness only to repeat the same act over and over  again!

The final straw came when he heard from his god  “after sex of course ”  this is the only time he hears from his god.  He then  puts her and the children out on the streets in the middle of the night that’s when I got the call just how “nuts” this guy was! I have had to get him together when he has tried to disrespect me.  I have seen this guy interact with others as if he is this down to earth…too cute and too cool…but I know his monsters have been allowed to stay active in the church!

I am outraged at a number of perverted jerks ranks high in the site of those who believe in them!

Well, my observation skills  was to check out what he attracts and who fools with him… And it’s always right… those who are just as filthy as he is…and the women have some sort of mental illnesses going on for themselves!

A child can be raped by someone in authority and they  try to make a child believe that he or she is wrong for stirring up trouble or bringing that person to justice . Or better yet, all because the person might know in the church as a good person…Okay, what does that many when there has been a history of trouble or negative situation brought to light.

UNFORTUNATELY, WITH SOME OF THESE PASTORS TODAY… You can bring all  the DNA evidence ,all 12  disciples along with the “resurrected Christ, nothing is going to be done ! Certain people who strongly advocates trouble are hardly ever dealt with. The  embarrassment to church   as  a whole is those “stupid rebuttals” …. As if God is going to somehow pardon certain elements in the church…. WRONG!!!!

Someone finally gets the courage to share the problems… and the real slap to the face is when someone can’t see their troublemaker, but affirms the bullying by not dealing with  the wrong… You’re lying if you can’t say that your frustrated with the injustices in this country or anywhere for that matter.

What grates my nerves more than anything is when no matter how much truth is given they are in denial. Here is the real mind blower…Nothing is more insulting to someone who has been violated by another and they held in the highest esteem and why? Although many protest against police brutality, and other social issues but are often church ignores many serious issues…

If I had a dime for every time someone can’t t can’t believe that their “picks” children or someone they respect might be e indulging in negative behavior. They would rather die than to be wrong or better yet be confrontational.

How dare we protest for humanitarian, social or community causes but fail to stand up for those we are supposed to protect. More insult, people are wounded, hurt, or maimed but fail to be confrontational about things that has happened on ones watch especially in the places of worship.  Just think when someone who has abused your son or daughter is in a pulpit without criminal charges being taken seriously!

Evils inside of people are affirmed when they are  coddled instead of confronted.   When someone tends to favor  people who might be  trouble … but refuse  wont deal with the monsters some keep hidden under their beds or the rocks they hide in their hands.  Regardless of how fond I am of anyone… It take guts to  ask God to show you where the trouble is and where the troublemakers are.

Here is the part that disturbs me  we are quick to judgment and selective  areas to protest. We hear of all the police brutality cases, the violence in many communities…strong protest and little outcry.  Violators are getting pensions while the unjust are trying to regroup  and rebuild their lives…and after being wrongly convicted.

But, on the other hand when someone has been sexually assaulted, violated , abused or harassed in some manner these can be the most damaging to someone especially a child but the marches and protests  are limited, and so is the outrage.

The die hard truth is many in the church  are gently touching the truth because many will be offended as if the church can’t be contaminated!

Unfortunately, nothing hurts more than to know you have been wronged and it’s constantly  being thrown in your face because  the monsters are still in their rightful place. And their is no righteousness then… So what is really advocated that only certain people can’t be rebuked or corrected.  Justice is a farce because no on is telling the truth about the garbage that goes in the churches today. Material things doesn’t make you rich…it’s your character!

What you tell me is that… Your monsters are okay and they can abuse and hurt all they want. This is why people hate the church!

 I don’t care how much of a  Christian you think you are… It will anger you!  

Try dealing with people who have abused and they now have badges.  Leaders in the church who have raped and abused God’s people but who talks about that?  And that they are still in the pulpit and sitting in the pews as if nothing happened!

Racists who claim to know and love Jesus but will call you something different when church is out.  Blacks just as well as the whites!  As if some of the garbage isn’t embarrassing enough?

You know I have truly come to know is that people still buck the truth when it comes to their personal picks and private monsters. They are affirmed even if they are messy!  Although attitude is all over the place.  The misplaced anger is always seemed to shed on the light on the ones who exposed the lies instead of the dealing where the trouble really lies! The seriousness of it all  is all because one might be an angel in your eyes, doesn’t meant that they are the demons with horns!

REMEMBERING MARVIN GAYE….

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One of my favorite male artist was the late great Marvin Gaye. ( Marvin Penz Gaye Jr.) Born April 2, 1939. Singer, Songwriter, Musician and Composer.  The son of  a preacher from the Washington D.C. District of Columbia  area all of his artistry started in the workings of the church.

My personal assessment of Marvin Gaye was of this. Even when I listen to him as a teenager  I could always sense that inner struggle between God and himself. Coming out of what was a described as a difficult home with strict religious Hebrew and Pentecostalism upbringing.

I have always taken  personal interest in Marvin Gaye to recognize his gift of song to the world. Although he had such a troublesome past… he continued breaking barriers in the music industry from Jazz to Rhythm and Blues. I today have some of his material that was given to me from a friend in Scotland. Uncut and never published music. Which are some wonderful romantic ballads which I play today called “my dinner music”.

Before there was Neo-Soul we has King of Neo-Soul. He moved to Detroit and became apart of the Motown after leaving his group the Moonglows… playing drums as session musician. Gaye’s, music soared after coming apart of Motown desiring to do Jazz and no love for R&B.  His career grew in leaps and bounds in writing music for Motown.

I enjoyed his smooth romantic ballads and the way he delivered his signature sound and there has surely been no other. Yet, I see the modern-day Pied Piper aka  Chicago’s R Kelly who reminds me so much of Marvin Gaye. Who I also like and  similar in sound.

Even in my day Marvin Gaye consistently push the envelopes with sexual content… and on the B side he was revolutionary and push the sound of the  movement and the cries of  troubled and all the social ills in  America and the hardship against the people of color .

I have personally always written something about Marvin Gaye,  during his birthday in which it  rides close on the day of  his death… He died on April 1, 1984 tragically at the age  of 44, being shot by his own father over a domestic dispute.  Marvin Gaye left before his time and he is someone I continue to remember he formed the sound of many musical genre today!

I miss the wonderful ballads that remind me of being passionate about love and just miss him!

GREAT READ…

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Here are my books for the Spring Season…Professor Cornel West, shares the influential impact of six most powerful  leaders, integrity and their most human vulnerabilities. 

Edward E. Baptist,  A Cornell University Historian shares some gruesome truths about why, what, when… about the slave trade, bullying tactics and dark secrets about America when it came to politics, capitalism, and the love of money

JESUS DON’T CONDONE BLACK EYES OR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

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Let me be the first to say…

Jesus don’t condone anyone who abuse their spouses…

Marriage doesn’t mean your face and is the poster child for EVERLAST       

Jesus don’t need half of your grill missing(teeth) to share your TESTIMONY of how you BECAME A DOORMAT!  

The only message in being a fool is when you learn how not to be one!  

Another lie…that people use…God doesn’t need use a bad situation to teach you a great situation…He simply turns our mess into MESSAGE!  God doesn’t condone anyone hurting, abusing mentally, spiritually, physically, maiming, and  killing his people!

Some churches better stop enabling it’s abusers…stop lying on God! People go to church but stop leaving your brain!

Jesus don’t counsel demons…he cast them out! 

For all of you who tell the others to stay in abusive relationship…What do you say when you have to bury them? What can you share if the devil is knocking you down on  your back instead of you laying willing prostrate before God in prayer?  Ignorance is working its magic on the mind of so-called Believers!… God doesn’t leave you ignorant especially when it comes to him! 

For all of you who say you stay for the children…the children often  wish you wouldn’t!   Men or women make excuses why they stay…death doesn’t have to be your final answer.

Domestic violence diminishes the King and Queen inside of you! What dreams can God accomplish if anyone  is told to stay within something that brings the family to its knees? Your dream will be buried with you …when you stay!

Domestic violence doesn’t give God glory but breaks his heart! If you stay there is NO TESTIMONY BUT QUICK A OBITUARY!

GUESS WHAT I DISCOVERED? MONEY CAN’T OFTEN QUIET THINGS!

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Here recently, I was doing some research.  And I stumbled upon something that really had taken me by a “huge” surprise. I discovered in my so call” safe neighborhood” and within some of the most prestigious surrounding suburbs. I was surrounded with a “lot” of registered sexy offenders! I am not saying all because you live in these nice areas there is no crime… But I believe that sometimes “money” can’t quiet things!

Honestly, when people move to these million dollar homes… Are they thinking… criminal element?  

Lord give me strength! And in the listing of where some of the wealthiest homes. I saw even more registered sex offenders! This is what we need to stay clear of what is “stereotyped” as a criminal! I lived by more people who got more issues than you’d care to believe.  After visiting the “National Watchdog Website”… It’s enough to make you wonder what is really going on next door!

 So I had to have the audacity to do even more research… I realize that I had more sex offenders surrounding the most affluent neighborhoods than in some of Chicago’s most high crime areas! If you think this was off the meter…  I continued to check more affluent areas… the same existed… What am I saying? Being in what we call the most nicest areas doesn’t mean you are exempt of being surrounding with danger!  People have a tendency to believe certain things couldn’t happen in their neighborhoods…

I suggest to  everyone go to your local police stations or surrounding counties to see just how strong crime is in the areas. Doesn’t mean that everyone is a criminal no more than we are to believe that some of these offenders are rehabilitated!

“You already know the response with some people… THOSE THINGS JUST DON’T HAPPEN AROUND HERE”…  HERE IS THE SHOCKER…for the most part the they do!

My question is this?  How many would stay in the same areas of what we call most affluent and wealthy areas… knowing that the city is “top dog” for sexual predators?

WATCH WHO IS MENTORING YOUR CHILDREN…

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MENTORING…Is when someone with more experience,that  is training or teaching the inexperienced. The sole purpose of mentor-ship is to be that  hands on life coach along life paths… It is supposed to teach a child character development, better social skills and demonstrate alternative in conflicts.

Maximizing the moments! So, that he or she can reach their full potentials in their arenas!

 Here are some disturbing accounts of children being mentored, so let me set up each scenario…

First, I went to an event, I saw some young girls”flocking” to someone I that has questionable behavior herself known to be a little tricky… and quite the manipulator! Belligerent is an understatement.  Split tongue, and two faced! One way in church another way outdoors… Get the picture!

As I begin to see all that were acquainted to be around her…  I saw young girls who already had issues with sexuality… and this was a mentor? I prayed quietly!

What I witnessed…was that the “lewd” behavior  that became more  hyped up and not turned down. 

RED FLAG….This was not a situation about respect it was about how to rope an-tie a man, and teach pole dancing as an extracurricular activity on the side. Just keep it on the down low…No  one will  ever take them seriously applying for jobs or seeking a better education or a better  way of life being lead with this kind of leadership! 

 I saw power being placed in the wrong hands, I saw perverted use of authority,  defeat and not a challenge to show the young ladies, that life consisted more than what apparently had been offered!  

Second situation, … Men standing around girl calling. Young boys, watching adult men being totally disrespectful towards women. Sizing the female up and trying to gain sexual conquests. The young boys are confused… in church they are told one thing … and outside they see another!  Showing our young men, how to abuse early in relationship dynamics… How yucky is this?

Final situation… Two women  BOTH in Education… With a child in the middle…  while the deviant was gossiping and   spewed hate and lies toward others.. While the other woman  just listened, and entertained by listening to her hate and jealous raging… Nonetheless her child heard every word. More confusion!

What am I conveying?

We lend our children anywhere   and around anyone, and do  you have to wonder where some of the madness stems from?

Character development… starts in the home, and extend elsewhere. Skip a church or school lending a hand in his. Parents are learning the hard way. You don’t need self made babysitters. Sometimes just your time and  time at the dinner table you can get more information about what is going on in your child’s life. Our children today are being taken advantage of … because of the lack of or poor parenting thereof.

You should be more consistent in who you are and not what you want others to think who you are.  The church isn’t the perfect place to teach your children today. Too many things you must assess before even believing they are in capable hands.  Often times people let their guards down because they are in church.  Crime happens in church like anyplace else. Proper covering and responsible leaders are not always amongst us! Be careful when you drop your child off here and there thinking they are in the best of care!

Children lose a lot of respect for their parents who are messy adults. I shouldn’t have to say watch your witness… How about you should be true to who you really are!

Stop teaching our children how to be bona-fide phonies and liars!  I think children can handle if you are the same  all the time …a little bit better…

Instead of putting on fronts for others. You want our young men to have self-respect and respect for others… Stop being anything but a man in front of them.

If  you purchased a brand new car would you give your keys to a stranger…Yet, children are distributed among strangers and those who don’t alway have their best interest. at heart. Seeds are sown….whether they be good or bad. Don’t get duped in believing “any”church is a safe haven…

Many children are molested in places where you think is safe… the church is no exception. Many kinds of people come through the church. Often times people let their guards down because they are in church… Wrong… In fact keep them up that much higher! 

THINK ABOUT THIS… The best role models are a child’s parent. Lead by example. All parents are not good parents,  so we must be community surrogates…

And if you “claim” that you are a Christian… please get your act together someone is always watching… It’s not about being perfect but be accountable and bit more transparent. Messy grown folks have no value to anyone including children.  Grow up! Spiritual maturity isn’t this “acting” class but a true lifestyle behavior!

Be that guide to show a child something better and remember something that is a power point in his or her life! The next time your child is in someone else’s company that you don’t know!

Man Throws Baby From Car Window, Strikes Her During Domestic Fight: Police – Grand Crossing – DNAinfo.com Chicago

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I pray that people are not coming to this kind of madness…When a person gets angry … “a baby has no human value”.

I have warned men and women who are in domestic violence situations”… If anyone that throws tantrums and things … eventually you will be the target…

Please stop “ignoring” people who have  serious anger issues and people who are still having “mental fits” aka tantrums!… You can’t change them and its not going to go away without someone mental health counseling and the desire to change!

What kind of human being would throw a child? This speaks volumes about what a person cares about murdering ANY HUMAN BEING!

This has been happening more and more frequently and this has to cease!

Man Throws Baby From Car Window, Strikes Her During Domestic Fight: Police – Grand Crossing – DNAinfo.com Chicago.

GREAT READ…

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Here are my book selections …

Someone else’s life testimony will set many of the captives free! Sometimes we have this mindset that these people who everyone “worship” don’t battle with generational demons and or curses!  

There are some who have the courage to tell just how “janky and jacked up” family life really was.  On a real note… these are the people I take a double interest in.  The candidness to share that imperfect life.  As much as many “adore” status… I know that  It comes with a price!  

I think that many people want to live vicariously through others “especially” celebrities… I haven’t quite figure that one out… There bodily functions all work the same way and yet they are still human beings.  People worship status… without knowing what the real price  is and to what extent!  

I find myself attracted to people who can “reach” deeper places so that the healing process can begin. Fake folks can’t heal anyone… it’s superficial.  They can only handle what they see and only the surface.  Many like that are too embarrassed to share because they want you to “believe” their home life was superior!  I have learned just from being in ministry of Deliverance, that many can’t get healed because many continue to lie to themselves!  Healing starts with a level of maturity and confrontation about what is and what can be a possibility of what is ruling and reigning in your life or your “closet”,

 I am speaking about when someone can tell you…it’s not all what you think it is. In today’s society, many “might” believe that the code of silence started in the streets but it was in many dysfunctional homes!

If you came from perfection these books are not for you and  God Bless You!

There are many of us, who are unequivocally have a story to tell, life was downright difficult!

Thank God for the selective few that have enough  courage to let you know about the “monsters” that were under their bed and in their homes!  

Lets share the read!

ROSIE PEREZ… HANDBOOK FOR UNPREDICTABLE LIFE…Tells the test and trials of reaching success, child of an extramarital affair, and the challenges of living with her mentally ill mother.

YAMMA BROWN…COLD SWEAT AND MY FATHER JAMES BROWN AND ME…  Shares her  life and relationship with her father, and childhood abuse…