NOTHING ANGERS ME MORE…THE STING OF WATCHING YOUR PERSECUTORS ROAM FREE

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A taste of bad medicine from police brutality to sex abuse in the church. Where is the true accountability to ever get  justice?  What does it matter if  the nation saw it all? Isn’t it amazing when we see the wrong and its never corrected. I warn even in ministry the practice of looking the other way. Who is better?  Everyone likes to blame but very little step up and say its wrong? How can you be the same knowing that your loved one died at the hands of power  tripping police… or sexually abused by perverted priests?

Open up your eyes… This country talks and protest moral decay but so many still gravitate to more show than tell! 

What can anger a person more knowing that they have abused, maimed, killed one of your loved ones and they are “allowed” to draw pensions and run free to hurt another? This fuels me on a daily to watch the people who have hurt you stay in positions or to watch justice fails us again!

I remind people think about every time you have to relive the person or people who have hurt someone you love walk free? What temptation to become bitter or full of rage?

The gnawing when you look at someone who is lying and the others stand in agreement as sign of solidarity and you or a  loved one is violated or dead?

I know what is more than a challenge when the truth is present, the evidence is still there and so are the cameras! And justice still isn’t being served. Foolishly people stay in denial but what about those who lived the nightmare? Sadly, our country is perpetrating it like so many others it stand for what it chooses to stand and ignore what it choose to ignore!

WHAT HARD WORK?

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There is nothing like braggart saying…they have a great job but never works! Yet, many say they go to work everyday and get free pay checks. I have never seen so many “lazy” folks in my life. And get quite angry when they are called out about not working. I believe in speaking with people who take their jobs seriously. I don’t feel sorry for people who spend years getting paid for a job they fail to do. I do understand when local and state government have to halt spending.

How many get “welfare checks” without going into a state agency? They parlay doing absolutely nothing all day as if laziness is that of the norm! They are last to get to work and the first to leave on time!

We really need to get our obligations together. People suffer as it is and then there is the mind of game of being depending on others to serve you and got a darn attitude about it! God forbid if they service the public serving and angry and still got a job!

Unfortunately, I do understand some state cuts because of all the frivolous time and spending Illinois has catered to for years! City workers are no different the waste of time and money but get paid anyway! When will our people take responsibility for years of abuse state, city and counties!  More and more some people have loyalty to their jobs not because they do them but it makes them lazier!  

I almost frightened even in the medical profession the bad attitudes when they have to work for real… As if your presence annoys them! We can established some good budget strategies  if we just get rid of all the lazy workers and slackers! The ones that wont miss a day of work because they aren’t working anyway and its the best gig in town.

We need to really assess what we call gainfully employed! Leaving out there doesn’t necessarily means that they are welfare recipients of another kind!

It’s time we reevaluate our priorities in the nation and in our cities. Times are getting more difficult and who is honestly paying for services we don’t get anyway! 

THE POWER OF HEALING AFTER BEING ABANDONED AND DISOWNED…

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Disowned means to be forcibly denounced.The impact of being disowned is more prevalent today than talked about. Don’t get this twisted people can disown  you with posterior of not saying or doing a thing.

Many have the emotional scars of being rejected and abused because of no fault of their own  . Whether its’ your family, school, society and even religious communities. Being “different” comes with a price. Being abandoned  and rejected among our “own” is more common than one would like to believe! The conflict is sometimes hidden and not so much on the surface. 

It’s when the gathering starts. There “collectively”  is an atmosphere purposely set to keep you or force you out! Unless you are familiar with being the outsider or what one might call the “black sheep”. It might not be that obvious to the naked eye!  

And because of the Joseph syndrome ( Genesis Chapter 37)the odd ball knows when they are not WELCOMED. Others ignore how bad it really is so they remain quiet and make excuses! Instead of intervening  against the behavior

The issues that comes along when one is disowned is a harsh reality about the heart of  people. From own experiences with many arenas when you aren’t accepted. The fight against jealousy, prejudices or just sheer cruelty of just not being liked. The fight to keep you out is real. And there is always a witness to do the right thing by the “oddball” and then you see for yourself that they rather not get involved… this is when anger and bitterness can set in. But you must move beyond when others wont stand by you or protect you… It’s at this point you have to decide to be healed and shake the dust from “UNDER” your feet and move on!

 I had to turn what others wanted to be negative into something positive. No one can deny the fight to keep your head above water when dealing with the negative impact of others.

So many I have already witnessed that are so messed up  and the issues are never dealt with so their “evil” is passed along! They can only relate to those who are just as harsh as they are! They never heal because the pain has become their callous.

 Some people that attend church are there waiting for that supernatural experience with God only to be met with more opposition and rejection. And the most horrific experiences that come from any church is dealing with adequate people among staff or the clergy itself who lack the compassion and the interpersonal skills to deal with hurting people. Oh we can stop the fruitless staff members who many know are just trouble makers with titles and position.

Satan keeps them in place to keep God’s people from not growing  up spiritually mature. Spiritually mature isn’t by far a definition of church attendance, how many church events you attend, nor how many years of membership. Growing up spiritually mature means that not only do I follow God but I am a lover of truth!

NO one wants to talk about the “jacked up” people who have the nerve to be in ministry and injure Gods people beyond repair. Until they don’t want anything to do with a church.  I concur! 

How can one healed after years of a broken heart? Its easier said than done.   In the ideal world we can embraced being different or who someone is. We know that’s not true because prejudices and racism is more alive today than ever before. The empowered is healing after dealing with rejection and your able to stand to tell the story. People are  often led to believe the “cotton candy”…watered down version of just how cruel and dysfunctional people really are! There is this “script” that many live by although they will “Never” tell others how bad it really was growing up in dysfunctional families. 

Being more educated  and well to do doesn’t exempt how emotionally flawed so many are including yourself. This can be very painful and you must make conscious choices to embrace the right things. Rejection is just as powerful  healing instead of moving past the pain some tend to hide among those  who are just as messed up as you are! Sometimes after being “rejected” people have a tendency to latch on to more of the superficial, this can also include, the wrong people, places and things.

So that one don’t want to seem weak so they camouflage. Misery adores company. Instead of being confrontational about the hurt the wall is build with others who are just as mean-spirited and bitter! 

There are those who may some challenges mentally on a serious level but I’m speaking of another kind of imbalances that society deemed as normal.  People aren’t that accepting and the church has become even worse. 

As if this kind of instability is somehow rewarding! I think the real shocker comes in when you live to see how so many don’t deal with how bad it is.  Some  churches has become more about money and members than being the characteristics of Christ!  The calculated, coldness of not being caring or concern. Christ isn’t concerned with how many it the pew but what empowers them after sitting in them. We see more cattiness and pettiness.

We can’t pretend we care about what happens in the world when we can’t govern ill behaviors on our watches inside the church. Some see what happens and dare not rock the boat. The fear of losing members is always at the forefront of  a leaders mind. Who cares who gets hurt as long as it doesn’t interferes with their “selfish” agendas. Ignorantly not paying attention and maybe God is testing you to stand for what is right other than SELF.

god will hold everyone accountable that gets abused  anyplace especially inside the church. When I write this I have certain people in mind. When there is no true love of God people get hurt by people who have “NO BUSINESS” in ANY ministry! Looks are deceiving it’s their actions that God sees and will judge them for their harshness.    Being disowned especially when you are a truth teller is what is hindering prayers and progress in the church. More hate is spread than love!

How can we even begin to speak to the world about “injustices” and so many get beat up mentally or become another church statistic. What do I mean?  People see when people are honest about their walk with God it shows. Not that is shows up on Saturday or Sunday with their Sunday’s best attitude that last all of 30 minutes!  

 I come to encouraged those who have  been disowned in any capacity even if it’s your fault. Forgive them and forgive yourself but don’t  “allow” people to dictate you from reaching God’s best.  The painful truth about the people we love they don’t know how or care to love you back. I understand the  fight to stay focused is difficult!

People say  “I love to hard but rather be this way than love less.  Love will catapult you in so many ways and will be ‘honored” by God especially! When you have a heart to love and rise above all the bad experiences of being disowned God will put the right people and environment after training days among those who abused you!

It can be hard and painful and you might even cry with thought of being disowned or rejected. I promise God I warn get among people who embrace you even if they are not blood related. Often times strangers treat you best! Go among people who need love it will take you mind off of those who abused your love.  Ask God for a clean heart (Psalm 51) This cleanses you spiritually from the wounds that are now scars! Yet, even the most painful experiences God prepares the table in the presence of your enemies and then he ELEVATES YOU! 

ATTRACTIVE NUISANCES…AMERICA DUMBS DOWN TO MORE “CRY BABIES”

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“ATTRACTIVE NUISANCES… the doctrine applies to the laws of torts in the United States that a landowner maybe held liable even if property that  have legal permits but draws you in with its attractiveness” .

Jimmy said… I don’t feel like myself, I feel like I can identify with the Lion… so let me act like the “King of Jungle”… I am so free-spirited I  know I can go among the animals and not be HARMED…Sorry Jimmy the jungle didn’t want him and ate him. This sounds so stupid that a man felt like he was called among the wild to be one of his own. Certain things this country goes for today is unbelievable to make certain people, groups satisfied! When I have seen “neglect” on many government levels that is simple off the meter!

I can’t believe how so many are so deceived with America’s  attractive nuisances. All the signs point to other upsets in the long haul. So it gets easier to shove the mess down the people’s’ throats!  Being politically correct is one thing but entirely ignorant is another. We don’t anyone telling us which “bathrooms” are correct for us. Take one look below it answer the question. I UNDERSTAND PHYSICAL MEDICAL  ISSUES THAT MIGHT REQUIRE HOW TO IDENTIFY…BUT THAT’S IT! Why should this be going any further?  And I know I am not being insensitive but I am a little taken with just how this country goes to support this or that cause… And wont embrace that we lack more freedom than we think. Systemic poverty and hunger lack of education, violence is out of control, 

So many people are dumbing down to society personal preferences and not doing the homework on the long-term effects when we give into what people want than what is needed.  Wat is really important now says its what one might identify with. Where are the boundaries?

I can’t believe our society spends so much time finding foolish  things to embrace.  I am NOT confused where I should be even if I identify myself on other issues then what?

Once we start this foolishness it continues! America has no boundaries and its a bottomless pit of what might turn up next. At some point we should be able to stand for something. Moral decay is limitless from White House to church house.

Today people have so many gripes and have become super sensitive on so many issues which some of this stuff is sheer common sense. When people can’t discern simple things and turn everything into a fight but will look the other way with lies that are told to satisfy the unquenchable flesh. It wants!  The subliminal mind game is that we are given a little bit a time for the test the palette  to see how much  will the people  received. The dosage of moral decay is slowly given until the people start to ignore the  confusion and the collateral damages. It’s then we look up to see what was easily open is now opening doors for other things to tank this country! 

WHY CHURCH MISTRESSES ARE TELLING ALL…

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THE SINFUL ELITIST AND SELF RIGHTEOUS GROUPIES TURN THEIR NOSE UP AT  THE  REAL GOSPEL. THAT’S WHY MANY ARE AFRAID OF INDIVIDUALS THAT KNOW THEIR “HOLD CARDS”… YET, THEY STAY TO MAKE SURE ALL SINS LOOK ALIKE … AND WHEN THEY GET ANGRY OR DEMANDS ARE NOT MET, THEY TELL IT ALL….

No one wants to say it but what we want to  hold in such high esteem is becoming more and more contaminated with evil than good! The church isn’t sacred it’s what you relationship with God that is sacred. Too many rules that many don’t follow themselves. Too much god complex among unhealthy spiritual leadership. God is turned off by it and so am I!

I am not turning people on to church but I am awakening many out of spiritual stupor thinking you are led by the real thing in a church. Too many excuses are being made about all this illicit behavior! God doesn’t condone such nonsense! 

I have seen Pastor wives and mistresses all in the same church! It’s not uncommon for brawls to breakout. That is why a Pastor that has whorish ways stay nervous or one the edge. He or she knows the atmospheres that they set in motion. Playing with anyone’s heart is becoming more and more dangerous! 

I saw them play the games by leading women on flirting undercover…  Being a Pastor doesn’t means he is less than human but church is abused in this fashion quite a bit! He or she knows that stakes are high when you get into ministry. If you don’t keep a strong level of discipline you will find yourselves in some pits!

The truth is coming out about so many who use ministry as a way of advancing themselves even sexually! I have seen the games they play which has been the upper hand for me because I am aware of the games in the name of God.  I can almost smell the foolishness in what a Pastor might believe will be his or her well-kept secrets! They are sexually pursued by the thirstiest it too is a cat and mouse game for them. Women know when they have someone who can be a conquest… Even if only for the chance to  expose them to say their nothing to them and that they are fakes!It’s  ironic how the same dog is being captured with the same games and it works!  The opportunity  to show others that how “Stupid”  they are!  Egos cloud better judgment. 

And when  the church get genuine and sincere leaders  in ministry they come to grips that the church isn’t into getting themselves aligned spiritually but they are there for the hook up whatever that might be!

That is why many stay in churches for years… not a history that is full of spiritual growth but a history of manure! A church and have thousands among thousands that attend and I can give a number that only a few or educated on the things of God and rest lies tradition. 

Thing  that they have to confront and that is spiritual corruption in the church house. I know the skinny on Pastors who love the women chasing them even if he or she a tired old shoe box… The desperation of the chase as if they are diseased in the mind some how!

This keeps his or her  evil  morales in high gear and it wont be long when he or she knows who lusts after them.  They are flattered, so the lead people in th wrong direction into believing they will. be the chosen one. I get tickled because they are married, single or somewhere in between. The sexual tryst is real…are often instigated by the pastors!   

Every time something come forth negatively about the church. I shake my head for these apparent reasons BUT much hasn’t change! The same nonsense continues and without too much push back from those who are on Boards and allow the behavior continue. Many have retired from ministry because of the lack of checks and balances! Moral decay is an understatement. When someone sheds light on torrid affairs that are wide open and people tend to ignore someone who claims to speak the oracles of God. Weight heavily when we want to call spiritual leadership. What has turned me off completely is the lack of accountability and the fake transparency.

Mistresses have the ammunition whether it’s the text messages, dirty pictures or the one-sided  love letters!  Even if feelings aren’t  reciprocated it is still what builds in their mind  that makes him or feel fine about themselves! Mistresses keep the world informed that the whole church thing still comes up janky whether we have good leaders or not…its all the bad apples that make us lose credibility!

What is supposed to be kept real is becoming more tainted and haunting.   What gives me divine anger is that so many are fakes in the pulpit and the people are easily led astray and then very good leaders have to deal with the aftermath once exposure of the church cover ups!  They stand flat-footed and say what the Lord has to say…and it’s no wonder why so many are coming forth and putting their business on front street!  Its’ embarrassing to say the least.

More people are coming forth about serial molesters who have been allowed to minister knowing that rape, and sexual assault are criminals and the church still remain silent.  And it always has to take that one to tell you where his mole is located and then the church becomes abusive because someone is exposing what they should have stood against! Of course, these are not  CHURCHES OF GOD… they are just churches.

Unfortunately I had to back up and reexamine my call to ministry and  fairly keep my distances especially with those who have no character or integrity.  All you have to do is see what surrounds that leader and you might have a snippet into their world. No man or  woman of God is isolating themselves with questionable things…It wont take long before you see his or her demons fully embodied! That’s why  I stand back and see the madness for myself, so that I can get a clear indication of where a ministry actually about. Sadly, more than ever …GOD IS USED IN THE GAMES!

You may not  know everyone’s spiritual resume’ but I better not find out  its tainted either! Spineless but sinful dominates many of the materialistic churches! If it takes the mistress to expose dirty Pastors… So be it.

I have a difficult time believing that so many so-called men and women of God are always aligned with devils. How can you preach against devils when you are one them? A lot of Pastors being murdered for outside extracurricular activities straight and gay!

That is why so many can’t handle when lies are exposed anything where light is exposing cockroaches they scatter to run only migrate in another hiding place. When  someone comes full throttle about a Pastor I am not shocked at the behavior but more and more embarrassed that we have sometimes once respectable leaders falling prey to the enemies traps!

PARENTS ARE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR “BAD SEEDS” …TAKING BULLYING SERIOUSLY!

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Have you ever wondered why some children were out of control and then you see their parents?  It explains it all. Many people have different parenting skills  but why so many children are buck wild when so-called structure is in place.  Children today are running parents and when it’s all said and done children respect people to keep them in order!  Whether we agree or disagree we have to be on the same page w hen it comes to nipping ill behavior before it goes too far! Bullying is terrible! 

Being politically correct people didn’t want to say some children are bad. But the reality is…some are bad seeds and history has shown that we can have a batch of children that were just born bad. Whatever you psychological take on parenting…A  Wisconsin town is kicking it up another notch…

Parents will be ticketed if their  child is bullying  by police for municipal code violations! First time offenders…$114.00  Subsequent  offenders…$177.00 each this includes cyber bullying as well!

I was proud because this let me know that Wisconsin is taking bullying seriously… And I want to be the first to applaud them!!!!

THE COWARD DISEASE TO PLEASE…WHY SO MANY ARE ADDICTED TO APPROVAL…

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The cowards  tell  themselves…  I am loved and respected until they are a normally FORCED… through humiliation… and this gives them the courage to remove what blinds him or her… All of their  so-called “friends can be devils. They live a life of seeking approval. So they seek safety to hide even if it’s the midst of evil.

Its been wrong for a long time but the thought to stand up  is often ‘shifted power”  because they can’t do it themselves. Fear and  anxiety wont allow them to make a move nor confront!.  They can only be tough in crowds who what he or she believes can protect them. They can’t  often spot truth because   being mistreated is  often apart of their version of their  loyalty program! 

You want  to appear bigger than you really are but there is just one problem… the disease to please and what if they hate me disease! They want to be the LIKED parent, they fail to correct bad behavior because they rather  to be favored. They walk the lines of doing what the people want to get reinforcement even if they aren’t respected . They lose focus on what is correct because the thought of being left out takes them there mentally!  Some people miss out on the best in their lives seeking comfort of others than what is best for them! And will only surround themselves with people who they “think” LIKE them. They are often duped because they can no longer see what has “SPELL” over them! They give in too abuses even with  those who know they don’t have the strength to stand and fight back! 

 The fear of rejection is real and the culprit why so many can’t move forward or throw away safety blankets. I want to be LIKED so they live fruitless lives knowing they are missing out but they have keep their LIKES…But here is where it’s wrong and stay wrong. So man live lies because they don’t want people to know how afraid that they are…So they surround themselves with nothing that will reflect on how bad it is! So he or she  mirrors what they know instead of what the reality and the truth is! They know that their true connections has nothing to do with you  but what you do for them!

If I stand against them… and tell the truth…I might not have this or that! There stomach gets very nervous because they have no idea not stand alone so they gravitate to toxic people, places,  opportunities and things. Thinking they are actually moving forward going backwards”.

They talk tough until they are confronted with DO SOMETHING…THEY MAKE EXCUSES AND ALL SPINE IS GONE.

So one goes along to get along.  They see abuses of every kind although saying  that they are about  unifying they hide because they don’t want  anyone to know just how scared they really.  They stick with the crowds because it appears to be safer. What will they think? I have to find a side and stay there even if its wrong. ey make decisions based on what will it look like instead of what is right! They have to have a sense of belonging. This is who gangs are actually born. Stuck and miserable but they can’t make a move because fear of being rejected so they hold on the always DEAD THINGS!

I have heard it all and experienced too much. Over in this corner could be the liars of all liars and why would a man or woman of God be standing near it let alone justifying it?  They lock arms and pray for this or that.but look the other way when one is caught in uncompromising positions and justifying with biblical quotes! And then who they really are ….comes hissing!

What just happened? Blessing and curses are flowing from the same lips? People are getting more uncomfortable about telling the truth…not as they know but what it actually is. So many have sold themselves out for chicken change and other compromising agendas. Just say what? Our history has been bound with fraudulent people until someone’s exposes the truth. They will the tradition of lies! It doesn’t matter if he beat his wife, it doesn’t matter if the persona is serial child molester. They will stand with the majority just to say they are apart of a movement of any kind just don’t call them cowards.

And they look the people in the eye and  bargain with ignorance. What solidarity are we showing that we can’t stand on our own and being attached to hip with corruption and compromise! When religion, or relationships have that much power over you that you can’t make sound decisions without the thought of not being liked…Sorry, you are already at a loss!

 People who have the disease to please coward  down under pressure.  What if …is how they live! Running a race always looking to see whose looking at them and will they approve who they are running with. Many have  missed out on great things God has planned for them,  being in bondage to people .  What reputations do you really have is what you need to ask? People can be in denial for years about why the do what the do. It’s obvious to others what many  cowards have fail to see…that they can’t  stand up without a human prop …for anything, so they fall of anything! 

LUCAS “BEAR” CERVONE DIES…BEFORE 6TH BIRTHDAY

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First,  I like to thank everyone that sent Lucas Bear Cervone  a birthday card. My heart was close to this one. Lucas died from cancer, Sunday evening just a some days shy of his 6th birthday May 7th. Right now I am sure that his family  need that much more support! 

Please keep his family and loved ones in your prayers! 

OLD MADE OR OLD MAID?… JUMPING THE BROOM OR STEPPING ON IT!

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Why people pull out all the claws to claim territory that really isn’t theirs is another mind blower!  It’s called “STALKING”.  I share level of bullying that people don’t believe is apart of being spooky and way off based.

And then they tell their story of being in love with someone who wont even looked at them twice! A true story… A woman told me that she was preparing herself to marry a man, who was not only not interested in her but thought that he needed a “restraining order”.  

I knew the minute that I heard conversations I knew that  she needed a doctor,…seriously! I was amazed at how many people she said was her friend but no one stopped the craziness. Her phone was full of photos of a man should couldn’t have. 

Of course I knew she was nuts…but she was stalking him. I asked her didn’t she think her behavior was off based. She was smiling and laughing as if I was the one that was off.

Poor thing  needed some serious help and the family had  sort of distance themselves because of this fanatical and maniacal behavior. She had been accused of stealing and doing all kinds of  psychotic things. I noticed that people she surrounded herself with and some common thread among them. They were all chasing things that they couldn’t have! 

She tried to align herself with some of his friends, followed him around town. One thing I did respect about the gentleman. He handled her with “kid gloves”.  At first but then he saw the other side, once he basically called her a “stalker”.  

He is a celebrity but he keeps a low profile with all that groupie stuff because he was like myself… We were taught that aligning ourselves with flattery is dangerous and keep the right perspective with people who follow you!  

Some people love being adorned and praised until they get that dark side. The game is to not play with folks emotions no matter how sane  you think they are. You will find out how mentally  imbalanced are when you say NO!  

The female was highly educated but she opened her mouth and begin to let her conversation loose she can go so far there! She keeps this side away from others because it is easily detected. It wasn’t really  a secret but something people ignored. She was beyond narcissism. I knew this woman crossed boundaries and no one wanted addressed how crazy she really was!  

I knew  of her but then I had to investigate things on my own when I had my experience with her!  Liar  was still a good word this woman needed to be committed this is just how far it went.

When I found the length of her criminal behavior she has attached herself to many people in the oddest ways including the church. What wasn’t the shock of my life others knew about it, and ignored her!  

You see, her fascination with wanting to be  married,she was getting older and it became obsessive. She had found the right man after the last 10 she stalked!  

The fantasy started  at a young age.  The idea that she  will be swept her off her feet, give her  the white house with two children and the white picket fence along with the dog called “SPOT!”  

If someone wants you they want you… praise your time of knowing who are before getting entangled with who doesn’t want you! Women who become borderline psychopaths wishing and praying for a love who doesn’t want it! So many  criminal stories that I have read and heard when someone is so head over heels in love with a fantasy. If it’s there its there…  I know that if he isn’t the “ONE”… I am sure God has replacement plans. 

Sometimes who you think you might have a lot in common turns out to be more than a handful. Marry someone who is worth knowing and loving if this is to be apart of your future.

 People do more working on giving the farce than facing the reality. If someone loves you he or she isn’t going to make you be  or act criminal. Drunk or crazy love isn’t a healthy love especially when it’s one-sided!

Some people aren’t marriage material or even worth the investment! One predictable factor is when you are the only one engaging and the other party isn’t!

Women who are serving time because of  what he said or what they thought!  Games are being played in the name of love.  When it’s too late the person has done some terrible things and  some will face that they need help!  You go to know when to walk away and set boundaries. Egos draw the feeble heart and mind.  The fantasy of being married before they get too old is the old maid syndrome. Instead of staying old made for the right person!  

I have yet to see a heterosexual woman make a gay man straight. And some actually try!  I have yet to see a woman of class straighten out trash and thinks he knows her worth when he have no idea of who he is! 

If a clock is ticking let it tick in favor and freedom of know your self-worth  instead of clicking from behind bars after doing something stupid in fantasy love that brings heartaches, suffering  and with no idea of who you are!

ASK YOURSELF ARE YOU SELFISH?…DEALING WITH SELECTIVE LOVE

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  “I RATHER CHOOSE LONELINESS THAN BEING AROUND LOVELESS INDIVIDUALS”

If I had a dollar for when someone said “I love you or I am concerned”  but  then their actions took center stage and finally you got to see how much love is there and being concerned wasn’t even on the option button.  

Now I know!  I spend first little time with people who take self-indulgence to another level. If they thought they were going to be left out is the only time they show up and even then they got an agenda! We know people like this much as we want to love them their truth come dwindling through! It’s all about them!  Yes, its narcissistic! 

I remember someone said she was giving me a birthday present but it has so many strings attached that I called her and gave back. I didn’t even dismantle the gift out of the box because I was told that my gift will have to help her when she needed! This will help her on her expenses! I had asked?  I thought this was “my” birthday present? And she actually thought she was generous!

I know some wealthy people who still have poverty spirits. And I  know people who struggle that is so rich in their giving until they get back double from God all the time! 

I saw the stinginess and it blew my mind!  What angered me more she actually though she was a given person and she is another claimed to be Christian. 

Sadly, and yet again… selfishness  is raring its head up again! People feel like they can do what they want and not care about the future of others!.  When people go through life’s challenges it’s a little easier if we can be more encouraging and understanding.  Not to feel as if there are no options to the pain they feel in their lives.  I warn people that we should be mindful of how we treat others and don’t minimize their  pain.  The selfishness that is displayed today is unbelievable if I can describe the uncaringness and unconcern of people! Selfish  love is warped it gets to people who they want and everything else if  can wait.  If it’s not about  them they don’t want to get involved. How you treat people matters! People seem to love who they love and not realize the level that they are really on. Human compassion extends more than one’s selfishness !

 It’s easy to gripe and complain about what the world needs to do and you honestly do nothing but take care of you and yours! What great roles have one actually played! Do we really love on people like we should or we openly care about what is more important to us?  You have to ask… Who am I and what do I stand for? 

What might not seem important to you is overwhelming to them!  God bless those who have these fantasy lives and stay in sense of denial! Life happens to all of us and you never know when pain will arrive in such a way you feel like you can’t cope. Some people think they are coping life in the raw hurts sometimes. 

People think I’m strange that I take everything personal when it comes to  levels of mistreatment.  I am an advocate  for love AND NEVER ABUSE! A hug  does wonders and a hug with love supersedes that! I respect people and regardless of what my day is … I am careful of my posture when I am dealing with people who may or may not be delicate. 

That human touch or contact when someone is dealing with a situation even if it is just sheer depression! I want to stay mindful that what I do and say can harm a person. I was taught this even in my painful experiences in life. To maintain my joy even when it’s all going wrong for me.  So, I listen  but I show it in love and not pretend!

You can take people by the hand and say it’s going to be alright!  We have to stop all this talking and let our light shine not also deflect our humanness by thinking loving on people someone how is a weakness.  So being mean-spirited is advocated as a shield of toughness, instead of love…As if you love is a sign that you can’t be firm! But ignorance flows in this manner.

God is love and we should always  extend  love with  compassion! I learned this from being around loveless and cruel people … Relationships are not HARD…IT’S THE WRONG PEOPLE THAT MAKE IT DIFFICULT!