I appreciate all of those who unselfishly decided that I was worth a “Birthday Wish”… I can’t express the love and support from the people that count the most…
God has sincerely blessed me more than I can begin to express… first of all with Life, Health and Strength.. the material things were off the meter … And” Special” thanks for my dinners and private celebration!
“A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOUSE… BUT FOOL PLUCKS HER OWN HOUSE BY HER OWN HANDS”… PROVERBS 14:1
Let me just come clean … I find nothing more irritating than a messy female. I have to admit when they sit next to me or want these negative conversations. I pray that I don’t go there!
They only have these conversation to see how you are going to respond looking for that right switch. And when they can’t find it. They gather all the mutual haters to “try” to take you down collectively.
Sweet Jesus Yes!!! I have to pray that God keep the bridle on my tongue and sit on my hands!
My prayer starting now… is that they please don’t approach me, come near me or pretend to like me. I don’t live for compliments. I definitely don’t do the phony compliments, two faces, and the jealousy! I have learned that some women are just cruel no matter how polite you are to them. I will admit I don’t do well with too many females because of the cattiness and what my history has been with dealing with the jealous and insecure females. I am not interested in the split tongues! Rest assured if God gives me a sister-friend she will be secure in what God has called her to be and not be secretly hating on me!
Oh no! This isn’t venting … this is my daily life experiences with ignorance of insecure females. I am stating some mere truths about the silliness” that needs to find some kind of control. The lack of maturity is almost frightening and I feel sorry for the men who marry them and to think they are sometimes someone’s parent. REALLY?
The jealous thing is so over the top… these women know exactly who they are and what they are doing! As many of them do maniacally plotting and planning my demise. They work over time… Remember when someone is so jealous of you… what is in the heart will come out in abundance!
If they can’t find what makes you tick…they make up lies as they go! I personally don’t feel sorry for you…because I know your day is coming!
God didn’t put me here to thrive off of “fake” friendships and empty social cliques and negative “Nancy” networks. I thank God for his wisdom to set boundaries and keep messiness out of my reputation! I have made it by the grace of God to stand up like a lady and I know when to be a woman. And it doesn’t take a lot to be yourself… and be genuine!
What I find so amazing at the insecurities of a lot of women. If you have married a lusty man… Get him together instead of hating on the females he lusts after. It’s almost insulting to me to think that every time a woman is insecure in what she has married than it must be the fault of the other woman.
And I a “special” note for the ones who throw their rocks and hide their hands. The “trap setters”…These are the sneaky women who pretend the like you to gather their information. I love running circles around them… because I can almost sense when they have hidden agendas because I don’t share who I am. And for what? If a female decide she is going to gossip and keep the devil stirred up… I don’t give information neither will give her the ammunition.
God knows I don’t want you in my company, nor in my house. I know about the games these kind of women play. They don’t mean you any good when they are preying and not praying!
I find it difficult to believe that they can love anyone until they learn to love themselves. Did I also say that some of these are so-called Christian women? Christians have many definitions these days… Just add that to their resumes and skip having a level of maturity and Oh yeah… God helps!
Lastly, my sidebar on how I handle them… Well, I am not a snake handler… You are not to handle snakes… You are to be wise of what your moves and positions should be when they are near you. RED FLAGS.
1) Don’t think for one minute they are not relentless on hurting or maiming you or they try to damage your reputation.
2) Some are so crafty with their mess… and they might act right and look right and then you see who they are in company with.
3)We must stay vigilant to their Crisco antics.
My mother told me as young person, the craftiness of a messy female even the ones that hug you and pretend to like you!
Good paranoia doesn’t hurt anyone! I know better… my life is privy only to me…If I want to share, I am not naïve and very careful of who I share my space with. All the jaw jacking spells trouble. If I am already on the devil’s hit list… a messy female will push his agenda to murder something in your life…So Beware!
I have to share, that God trained me not on the good people but on the unlearned, ignorant, the fools and the immature. No, it’s not a good feeling but it teaches you to reach and adhere to conflict resolution. This reminds how imperfect our world is and how jacked up the mind really is. God wants us to love and embrace the people but not the ignorance! I am that light even among the deepest thinker or the darkest mind!
Evil no matter what the gender is… keeps me on my toes. It teaches you to discern all the worlds tricks and church witches! Their words are smooth as butter but their hearts render war! You must discern when you are not to respond or entertain their evilness or their foolishness!
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First let me express our sincere prayers and condolences to every Police Officer that lost their lives this weekend and to the families of New York Police Department and the city who have lost two fine officers.
How many times have I express the importance of exercising wisdom when others decide that they will sensationalize protest and things of that I nature? I always state and lay out the foundation of a clear balance with purpose and policies.
There are always the fanatics that are among us, marching and protesting alongside us with negative energy FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS. Who can explain how it’s all going wrong. When the right reasons are presented and you have individuals with the wrong agendas. And trust me the blame game will begin. That’s why I continue to suggest…
1) First show what are the target points or purpose
2) What will be the policies that our community will pursue
3) Make yourself clear and have an honest agenda.
There is always someone who have rotten reasons why they are protesting. Making history means what… If there is nothing to back up endless marching and protesting. A few find it difficult to take this approach. Putting the cart before the horse doesn’t get anything in motions. Until we hit this from all fronts all of this will be in vain. Creating an anarchy isn’t a great thing. We still must be mindful of the good police officers as well.
You could see the writing on the wall with continued protest without demanding reformation within the proper protocols. Two wrongs isn’t going to make this right! I warned that the lack of wisdom and know how wasn’t going to resolve anything but stir up more mess and disturbances.
We must stay focus on what we are really aiming to do. Many people always seem to misconstrue having productive protest. I saw all the sensationalism that led to more violence and open target on good people.
What did it really resolve? Policies and police reformation is definitely needed. But we don’t want any more bloodshed of anyone in the streets! What is the purpose of non-violent protesting if there will be attacks on innocent people police or not?
Yes, I believe there is way of demonstrating … There are plenty of reasons to do such!
Yet, be mindful in the spirit of what we are really protesting about because…
“IGNORANCE IS ALWAYS THE FORE-SEEN DANGER”
Recently someone consulted me about a young teen girl who is gay went to the girls restroom in her church… and the Ushers were so blatantly cruel decided that they would call her out as a boy because of her attire.
So the ignoramuses tried to embarrassed her and made comments that they shouldn’t have. Of course the cowards watched and witnessed… no one came to her aid. They were suppose to be responsible adults around that witnessed the whole account and said nothing and did nothing.
What angered me even more she is still someone’s daughter . Why go to school when you can go to church and get bashed?…She got so called…BELIEVERS DOING THIS?
She has already and been abused by the church with silent whispers, rumors and their actions of not including her. She affect the other youth syndrome … in the church .
It’s the gay koodies!
We need to better educate our Parishioners on interpersonal skills towards people who might differ from us! Some are going to hate anyway educated or not!
How is the witness of our “churches” when we treat people with such concentrated levels of evil and abused them with our mouths ?… It’s amazing what the church is supposed to represent but DAMN’S GOD!
I have seen this kind of hatred among church folks and it reprehensible to think that you labeled yourself anything like Christ and filled with that kind of madness. You want to see some cut throat and maniacal people… find a church near you… It wont take you long before you find your haters, and the cliques… Jesus got the temple together because of what flowed in the House of God.
This is nothing new right?
My own experiences with my relatives who are gay are about the same. We can’t go always in the same places based on the ignorances of others. God forbid going to church …People are afraid to hug them thinking something sexual might happen…
REALLY? People who struggle with their own sexuality follow suit on this foolishness! If I find someone gay bashing it’ a red flag!
People put up their children ALTHOUGH MOST child predators are heterosexual. People wont touch the hands of gay men thinking AIDS … might be apart of their physical make up… I deal with this stupidity on a regular!
We all know people who are in our lives who are gay whether one accepts it or not… Guess what ? Many of them let you keep quiet about their lifestyles due to the ignorance of not being treated fairly. It’s very discriminatory and not Christ like behavior. Often times you have more gay people be near you and you don’t know it anyway! Get out of people’s bedrooms. If we did a closet checks… I can almost guarantee things are in their closets that they think they are hiding but someone knows about it!
When I heard how bad someone is treated in church… I am terrible offended and I take it personal! We are Christians by the love we show… Its sad but true …
Churches are filled with less God and more with demonic messy entities that will try to bring out the worst in you …It shouldn’t be that way …but sadly it is.
Many gay teens are thrown in the streets and are homeless because of the stereotypes and what the lifestyle brings. All the finger pointed doesn’t alleviate the truth or your sins! For all the stone throwers!
Nothing could have pang me more than reading about five members of a church… allegedly kidnapped, and assaulted a gay teen. More and more people do not know what to believe especially when it comes to being a so-called “Christian”…
It’s funny along with dealing with racism in America… the typical stereotypes of dealing with the ignorant church goers. Unfortunately, people should be able to come as you are. but most of us no better. We have more prejudices and hatred in the church.
The gay bashing needs to stop and it’s a shame that we have to tell the church to stop doing it. Hate crimes are hate crimes! And No matter what sexual preference someone prefers you have no business assaulting them with your fist or with your mouth.
Here is a real eye opener… You have no idea what people do when someone isn’t looking or goes on behind closed doors.
Christ went into the vineyard to be that witness in the dark places… All churches are not bad but many need to come up a little higher.
The self-righteous idiots of the church makes me go there…they seem to be so perfect in their minds but God’s knows the skinny just how low down many church goers can be …they live one way in church and behind closed doors it’s another story. That’s why many of them wont go near a church…stay out of bathrooms because there are the trap setters.
I am appalled at the behavior among the people who know better and go along with the foolishness anyway. What Christian is pumping up this kind of nonsense in the name of God?
Remember… if the person coming to Christ experiences this on our watch we are just as responsible… Maybe if the church busy bodies can work on their negative speech and hypocritical lifestyles we can see the pews fill up again….If this is what the world has to experience we are no better than the are…Shame on us!
Annie Lee Cooper… was born in Selma, Alabama in June 2, 1910. She dropped out of school and move to Kentucky…and then returned back to participate in the Civil Rights Movement!
The police deputies then beat her to the ground. Charged her with “criminal provocation” and was escorted to jail and held 11 hours and wanted to charge her with attempted murder. Annie Cooper became a registered voter after the horrific incident.
On, June 2, 2010 she turn 100 years old and died November 24, 2010. Her mother lived to be 106 years old.
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In light of the Sony situations, actors who are accused of rape and molestations and so forth… Here comes damage control!
Lets call this person to get the “black people straight”. Lets call “certain” reporters and news stations… they might display a more human side… instead of tales of the dark side.
How many have talked, lied and made racial remarks about someone? It’s all a game simple as that! Humans go through these gambit of emotions on why not come clean because it a false sense of security of not exposing the dark sides of people!
People put on these fronts in your face and behind your back you are every name in the book.Some come whirling with fake compliments… and those stab you in the back hugs! Get away from me with me all that!
Now, the phony part about all of this is what? You can say you sorry until you are blue in face… Why apologize if this is what you feel about someone? Yes, embarrassing but it’s also not sincere you are going through the motions so you wont look like an idiot!
You got caught…You are sorry because your monsters have been exposed! Personally, what irritates me…I wasn’t important enough for you to think the better of me before you were exposed…and now I didn’t mean it all of a sudden. Yes, you meant every text, email, every demonic gesture behind another’s back… How many times have I seen and heard this load of manure? I just cut through all the junk! You are out there! You can get Jesus and all the twelve disciples… It’s not going to change the fact you got CAUGHT UP!
We all have said something out of emotions and you didn’t mean it! I am not excusing when someone does something and call it a mistake and then apologizes especially when it’s with great intent and they meant every word!
Personally I don’t believe the apology is ever sincere especially when you are just got caught up! When you purposely attack the character, mean spirited, the race or otherwise. I am to believe you meant every word of it. How can you say you love me when there is abuse? I am not confused! Yet, many allow people to water down their better judgment!
When someone has wronged me… and they finally get up the nerve to apologize I really don’t care about it. Whether its 20 months later or a year. I can’t give you that kind of power over me. You meant it …and I know it… So now what?
I have to forgive you whether you decide I am important enough or your prideful ego will allow you to do the right thing! Have you seen these people that do all this wrong talk to everyone about the problem but “NEVER” seem to get to you! The sincerity is hardly ever there so leave it alone… you are wasting your own time and God’s. When something is heartfelt it will show… just as if you are making excuses to not make right in the first place.
I will forgive you but I must possess the gift of goodbye!
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You want to hear something odd?
I use to work for a major insurance company here in Chicago. I work directly with both bosses. Each night before, I would prep for my dinner depending on what it was the night before. I would get up early to work out get myself together to catch my train. I would then arrive to work a half hour early to settle in make the coffee and read the paper!
Before I leave each day I would keep the office clean so that when I would return everything was in order for the next day…Sounds like a lot but it wasn’t for me because I wanted the order.
Unfortunately, people would get jealous because, there were no hidden agendas. I called myself making life somewhat easier on the three of us because we had to do the business and people weren’t alway that nice.
People would always try to get in my ears.. Telling me that I shouldn’t do anything extra because I didn’t have the friendliest bosses.. and they deserve me working for them... I wouldn’t complain because every person that I have ever worked for… did a great job taking care of me when I was off the clock. I got along with them just fine… When it comes to me today people still miss the lesson in the extra mile is more about me than them… maintain keeping the order keeps a pleasant atmosphere to do business!
In all honesty I don’t have to smooth furs, kiss tail or waiting for someone to affirm me. I sow the seeds of what is to be built in my house.
I didn’t do anything that is taking me out of my element to just be thoughtful to the next person … this is what was instilled in my character to grow. How one responds is never on me. God rewards me whether or not anyone recognize my acts of being kind! I learned immediately…for some people it’s hard for them to be humble. Showing love is some kind of weakness… but oh no! Its show how dysfunctional many people are… People do things for show but this is who I am! This keeps me in perfect peace with myself!
I didn’t exactly come from a militant home. My mom wasn’t about that slacking and procrastination. Get up and get it together! And she was never one to repeat herself! She was the parent not the other way around!
I am still that way today, I like things decent and in order. I tend to clash with people who can’t seem to respect order! And in recent years… I don’t even bother picking and choosing which battle I will fight… I have become seasoned enough to know when to remain quiet and then there is a time you have to be confrontational! My point is this… As much education, and employment needed in this country we still have those “selective” few that will never be satisfied. You can’t do enough, give enough, they have something to complain about.
I had this conversation with a young lady who is school teacher. She had this booklet they had to work on after a workshop two weeks ago and had to have her assessments in. She apparently waited to the last minute to turn her assessment in.
After just receiving another pay raise… I’d asked…and I hate I did… What was the homework for?… Oh sweet God…she went there! I can’t believe they can’t hire people to do this. I simply replied” Well, seems like to me that the best assessment should come from those who are up close and personal… And then it whirled… “THAT IS NOT IN MY JOB DESCRIPTION”…
I had hit a nerve… She was telling me off in her own “little way”… And then I responded… ” Thank God, you got a job…it’s a simple book …reading, writing and arithmetic”. She seem to be too lazy to do any of the above. These are personal answers and she was too lazy to read?
I knew then…Homeschooling is looking more prevalent than ever for the future…
Why? This is one of those teachers that wont teach our young…to go the extra mile but cut corners to get by. Her attitude alone infuriated me because what does it take to go a little extra mile or was it? She did just get a pay increase! Wow!
My attitude has opened many doors for me not because of always my skills! It is my character that maintains me for any title or position! I have been favored with other experiences because I treat someone else’s things, business, ministries, anything…with respect as if it was my own. People today treat their own with great sloppiness … So you have to wonder!
Ironically… people actually get upset when you can think for yourself and affirm others while you are doing it.
Misery does love company but I can’t give it to them!!! I can’t afford to allow people to drain me of my joy with their foolishness and negativity!
How many of us have experienced the chronic complainers? Always seem to want something for nothing…and many of them are just spoiled brats who are just LAZY!
I am one that will … I observe for myself. I don’t need personal babysitters to encourage me to stay in a posture of being lazy whether it is mental, physical, emotional or spiritual.
I find fault not only with the individuals that have the behavior problem but others who never allow others to grow up and face responsibility.
Some people “egos” are on high… just knowing they haven’t weaned these kinds of people off! This is also keep enablers from looking at what is lacking in their lives, so they the complainers on as means of just saying…”they come from this place or that place”… and can’t a days work out of them in one year!
Being an enabler or co-dependent with individuals never teach them to grow but be breast fed on all their negative energy and allow them never to transform them into anything but rebellious cry babies!
Lets keep it real? There are those who have great employment, great families, great spouses and complain about everything! The bottom line is still goes back to “SELFISHNESS”. They are really manipulators!
I can easily tell when they are” trouble souls” usually people who are messy in character… don’t know how to receive acts of kindness without complaining or they are always suspicious of others because they know what they are about …
What you do for them it’s never ENOUGH… AND ALL ABOUT THEM!
Ask them to do what they are being paid to do and they just lose it! They are such control freaks they can’t seem to follow any rules and regulations but their own.
Many people are on more welfare than you think not because they didn’t visit the public aid office… Many of them get free paychecks for doing nothing… Some people seems to keep them employed as for myself.. They have to go!
When someone is hired to do a job… you are supposed to do it.
For example and this grates my nerves…
I know a man who brags about not missing a day of work in over 20 years and he works in the court system… He “actually” get dressed up wear the finest clothes..to play cards all day long.
If I was on the Las Vegas strip, I think it would be quite easy seemingly you wont work!
And to see what he does at home is almost just as shocking! He does nothing there either…Nothing but complain!… If you allow him tell it, he is a great provider… Lord have mercy!
This is apart of the mentality that I am challenged with CONSIDERABLY…SPOILED BRATS!
They think they are God’s greatest gift to the world. All they know how to do is draw you in on their theatrics. After then you will get nothing in return but complaining and more attitude. What do they care they have had sponsors! Someone who didn’t stop the craziness! They have never did anything but “jaw jack” and seem to do everything BUTut work…
Talk about immaturity! I will be so glad when people start nipping this nonsense in the bud. Often times when they go someplace and you hear all these glorious things… and only to find out they don’t have the skills to do anything but complain. You look at who employed them,,, call the person this super worker… and the balloon pops and the reality sits in… Not only have they been spoiled do nothing…. what you call real work and what they call work is different! I don’t deal with complainers… they will drain the life out of any situation is given. You can’t go on perception but what is placed before you in all it’s wonders!
Complaining will rob you of one of the most important ingredients to a challenging life… Its called… being THANKFUL!
People can form opinions of this or that…or wont read this” Blog” because it’s not “your” norm… Well, I am not your “norm”. That doesn’t bother me in the least. If I have reached one I have reached millions! Just like your appendages they belong only to you! I have come from among them to be separated!
It’s time we just let go of the ignorance that short change this country, our homes, our families,places of worship, communities and so on… I don’t care what country you are living in… what religion you believe in… But I hope and pray that we can learn to exercise some “wisdom… and a little bit of grace and mercy towards others that doesn’t fit our everyday norm!
What does it take to give one-act of love, kindness and prayers. What was done to those children in Pakistan…was absolutely horrible! I am amazed that people let things dissect them from being just a mere mortal. It’s that God thing again… Until you walk through pools of blood to find your child that can bring you into a mental breakdown!
If this had have been our children…this country would be singing God Bless America… God is universal! It’s almost hilarious to even believe that one organized religion, church, sect or whatever you think you are… To believe you have a monopoly on God!
Trouble and more trouble is coming to this country… and don’t you dare believe it’s going to just get better why Americans look the other way! Stand up for something… What a loss to see the lost of lives senseless to people who believe in something vile and evil…
Pray for Pakistan today please!